i have lost the boy i love and in the same time a very good friend. things can't be the same any more. i don;t feel people around me anymore , or even events. i have friends, but this could not get me through. i have no more desires in life. just to be at peace. i don;t want to get up in the morning, during the day i remember the past with him, and in the evening i can;t go to sleep. it;s like things are passing me and i am not capable of feeling anything. i am numb. please help ....
2006-09-17 10:12:14 · 9 answers · asked by Gabitzu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depression has definitely gotten to you. Why is it that this person controls so much of who u r even though u r not together?
What ever feelings u've invested into this person must be taken back.You know that life goes on, U've just got to figure out when and where to start. If this has not been the first relationship for you, then u know that it is possible to move on. You may need to seek professional help if U find that U cannot do it alone. I really believe that "time" heals all wounds, but sometimes we do have to help it along. Get some professional help, sweety, U don't wanna stay in this state of mind. There is so much for u to live for. U lived before this relationship and u will survive after. Good Luck.
2006-09-17 10:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine this happened somewhat recently. I'm assuming this boy passed away. You just need to know that his time was up on this Earth and that he's in a better place now. Just think, this life is absolutely nothing compared to the time you will get to spend with him once you're in heaven. Take God as your guide. I know it hurts now, but things will get better. Just remember the happy times you had with him. Cry. Crying is giving your soul a shower. Sometimes it helps to pretend that he is there with you. Just have a conversation with him. Lay in bed and imagine him there next to you. Go for a long walk and just think about him, and pray for happiness.
You have my sympathy. God bless you!
2006-09-17 17:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Nemo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depression and hurt are hard to live with but you can if you take each day and remember the good times with your b/f.. Take each day and be thankful you did have him in your life . It will get better, seems as though it wont right now but it will .Be Strong.
2006-09-17 17:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa this is tough since you are a girl.
I usually think about hot chick vampires and listen to Linda Ronstadt. Maybe you can develop the female equivalent.
2006-09-17 17:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by El Gringo 237 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at one time or another we all go thru things like this. You gotta hold your head up high and move on. As hard as that may seem right now you can do it. Your broken heart will mend in time. They always do.
2006-09-17 17:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the activities you usually enjoy + do some volunteer work, helping others always helps your self being.
2006-09-17 17:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to some good music..that not makes u think ..but rock ur sox off like rock,rap.
2006-09-17 17:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will fall in love again as you did the 1st time
2006-09-17 17:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Luay14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself
2006-09-17 17:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋