2006-09-17 10:07:02 · 7 answers · asked by tarzan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do u know that it takes 28.000 dollars to raise just one child til he is 18 so your looking at almost a 1.000.000 four 4 kids do u work.
2006-09-17 10:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have one before you have 4.
Try one first. If you can handle this, move on to discussing having a second for they can play with each other.
I would not assume that you will want 4 once you have 2.
2006-09-17 17:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a working, fully-understood compromise,. you want 4,. he wants how many? If he wants 2 say,.. then try asking to have 3,... but don't you think there's enough kids in the world already? Why don't you consider adopting one/two/three/four?
2006-09-17 17:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by wildimagination2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about compromise. Maybe he doesn't feel like working himself to death to financially afford four kids. Perhaps that was a subject you two should have discussed before you got married, seems rather important, doesn't it?
2006-09-17 17:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about compromising by having two kids...
2006-09-17 17:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by answerer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so don't, 2 is enough
2006-09-17 17:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-09-17 17:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋