In many past relationships I've had a bad habit of "faking it" and I promised myself *this* time it would be different. I have an incredibly loving and supportive boyfriend, but he gets so hurt when he disappoints me in any way. I've faked it a few times already. Do I come clean and tell him and risk breaking his heart or keep it and the guilt to myself and vow NEVER to do it again?
I'm SO torn! Serious advise only please.
2006-09-17 09:56:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be honest i guess but wait till the next time nd dont say about the other times just say from now on its the best thing for everyone really. and dont worry about it its not your fault you were only thinking of him.
good luck =)
2006-09-17 10:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant and aren't honest with your boyfriend then you will never be . and that is a big time mistake on your part/ a good relationship starts with honesty..and respect. you are not honest and do not respect your boyfriend because you aren't honest with him,. you are hurting him more then you realize. and your relationship will fall if you continue this way.And I am sure you would want him to be honest with you. no matter what.
2006-09-17 10:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yours too. You should suggest things, let him know what you like. If he doesnt start getting better, let him now that your not satisfied and that your willing to try new things. lying only makes things worst.
2006-09-17 10:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by Los 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bring it up gently as in a way to make it sound not totally his fault no point in lying relationships are about honesty.
2006-09-17 10:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi girl my name is brandi and you need to be honest with your bf cause if you don't this relationships will not be a honest relationships
2006-09-17 10:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Candycane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not tell him the truth!!! but what you need to do is say "baby, like it when you touch me........" "i like when you kiss this....." "i wanted to try ..........tonite"
2006-09-17 10:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by nicole_lacy_singer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋