my wife and I had a deep conversation last week, and she let me know that she wants to sleep with another man who has a large (10 in) penis. She says she loves me but wants to know what a large penis feels like. She is a great woman, but I have to be fair to myself. I want honest and true answers with this. I know that I am not huge, and that shouldnt matter; but I guess she wants a one time affair.
2006-09-17 09:55:50 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not only is this a low blow to your manhood but its very disrespectful and for her to even go there means that shes shallow and she doesnt value you or your marriage because if she did the size of your penis would not be an issue for her she knew the size of your penis before she married you so why now,shes very disrespectful it sounds to me that you need to let her go and find out what a big penis feels like and let her stay with whom ever she decides to spread her legs for let him have her A ss you can and will be better off without her shallow a ss.
2006-09-17 10:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is willing to break marriage vows and committed she made to you for a 10 inc pen.is????
Think about it.
The answer should be a no, period. The fact she is considering having another guy penetrate her other than her husband is a very big sign of trouble in the marriage.
Think of all the cons of it:
She lusting over another guy. not you. Which puts you down on performance and sex wise.
She can become pregnant or get an std from this other guy.
She will want it more than one time, causing a rough patch in sex department.
If she is a great woman, she wouldn't consider it.
She had a chance to be with a "bigger guy" when she was single. She is married and shouldn't lust over a pen.is. That chance is gone.
If she want something "big" then she needs a vibrator. That is her only option.
If she still pushes the idea, then say "Then I want a woman with a tigher pu.ssy". I bet she won't like that. But you know what, same exact put down she is giving you. Maybe she will learn from her own "dose of medication" she gave you.
2006-09-17 10:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about the obvious answer..
Go to a Sex Toy, or Adult store, and buy a Penis Extender that will take you up to that size. They are available.
Then to add some fun to the moment. Tell her to meet you at a local bar, or restaraunt, and "pick her up" for the evening.
You'll both have fun, she'll know her answer, and you can do it again if you both like.
But other than that, her reason is just an excuse to have an affair. If she persists after you offer this suggestion, then it's time for a serious discussion, counseling, or time for you to make a decision.
2006-09-17 10:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by KansasDragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One time affair my foot ... If she is having these thoughts she will live them out; one way or another.
Seek a marriage counselor or file for divorce. How would she feel if you said you wanted to have sex with a woman that had large breasts and would stick to her vows?
She is wrong ... She is acting like a Floozy.
Put a sign in the front yard that says "My wife wants a 10" Penis" and see how she feels about herself then.
2006-09-17 10:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how does she know this man has a big penis? If she truly loved you she would never even think about betraying you like this. How can you give her permission to give something that is supposed to be sacred and for you only to another man. Sounds to me that she isn't worth your time or effort. Ask her if you can sleep with a women who isn't a loose as her because you want to know what it feels like to have someone that good. Maybe then she will rethink how ignorant she is being.
2006-09-17 10:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she can sleep with whom ever she wants when she signs the divorce papers.
As embarrassing as it is, go down to your local adult novelty store or buy online if you can't make it there and there they sell "extensions" that a man can wear. This way she can fell the length with her husband! There are many other novelties that are huge in size and you both can experiment.
Personally, it shouldn't matter the size, but the intimacy that you both have.
Almost sounds like an excuse to me. Men with large ____ is overrated. Actually it winds up hurting more than bringing pleasure. Everything should be in "moderation" I always say.
If she persists, then tell her you want to be with somebody who has morals!
2006-09-17 10:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by mg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your wife already had a large pen*s. How can you possibly accept the fact that she is not happy with u. So ok your not Mr. Universe with a 12 in., but there are other ways and tools you guys can enjoy without bringing in a third person into it. Seriously you need to sit her down and let her know this is unacceptable...Good Luck!
2006-09-17 10:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is talking about adultery here. I don't know what to say on this one. Go out and buy a huge dildo and use that and say OK here you go. I would not ever be able to live with myself if my wife went and had an affair, even if it is only 1 time. What happens if she really likes it? If she really loves you, she would never want to do anything like that.
2006-09-17 10:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer should be no, if she wants to feel 10 inches buy her a vibrator but if you let her do it you will feel sick and less than a man and it will ruin your marriage.
The depth of her vagina is not 10 inches so it will hurt her, or it wont go all the way in so what's the point. Your wife is looking for excitement then show her the sex god you can be - but dont let her go elsewhere for it as it might not stop at just the once.
2006-09-17 11:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is f***ed up. If she does it once then she will do it again. She may just do it anyway even if you say no. Get her a 10 inch dildo if she wants that so bad but, when you choose to marry. Then you are together and that means no other. If you give her consent just plan on a divorce in about 3-6 months. And the worst of it is she will say its your fault!!!
2006-09-17 10:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by marygold2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋