i used to be fun and lovable and soft natured person. soft corner towards girls and ladies ignoring what others do bother. it was the transition period from the bachelor to marriage. since my wife does nt have any problem i was easy. at one point things started serious turn to get affect my profession. like a slow poision some tricks played by them. unknown persons started to follow chase. stealing my items. i had no clue . internally fear started accumulating when i see and talking girls. i stopped talking to them suddenly. they also started taking revenge on me. they used to tell about wrong gossips on me to my wife and inlaws. since everybody believed them friends also treated me harshly insulting and stopped talking. i got confused and suddenly i became alone. that was the starting point of my depression. i just wanted to take break and want to wait until i recover from this trauma. but until now i do not find solution for this problem. almost two years over.helpme......
2006-09-17 09:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should try to talk to ur wife before u take any action. I did not understand the reason behind ur depression but i can tell that u r not handling the situation the right way or the way u should. Try to solve this problem with understanding the reason behind it. There should be one person in ur life who can understand u and what u r going through, talk to that person. If u don't have any, there are lot of phsycology councelers out there, go and talk to them, they always have some good advise. But before anything talk to ur wife , hopefully she will understand u. Try to handle this situation boldly.
I hope u will find solution to ur problem.
2006-09-17 12:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Smiley face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever talk to psychological doctor - you need help more series then you think about.
Or just take a long vacations like three months go to relax get over of the realty making you sick - and come back as a new born.
2006-09-17 16:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dissertation about your life sounds confusing and the only thing I can see is that you are depressed and everyone is against you. You obviously did something and everyone knows but you. Go and seek out counseling and talk to your wife......keep the others out of the mix.
2006-09-17 16:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends turned their backs on you so they were never your friends. forget them, and your wife is not a good wife or person to not help you in any of this. you have good reasons to be depressed but don't let it kill your life,. you don't need Any of those people .as you stated" you were easy." yes an easy target to ridicule and belittle. forget all of them . they are not worthy of you. your wife is as equal to blame for not helping you and not standing by you through all of this.and for being in on it .
2006-09-17 16:59:24 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek professional help from a Therapist.
2006-09-17 16:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just becasue you are paranoid does not mean that people are not actually out to get you.
2006-09-17 16:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Evil Homer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to somebody.
2006-09-17 17:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you look for is NOT the ONE you SEEK.
2006-09-17 18:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by A Big Fat ZERO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋