i'm marred from 3 years and i feel like am boring from my husband i dont like to do any more sex with him i really love him but i dont know why that is happeinng to me any one can help me to do some thing exiting???
2006-09-17 09:44:35 · 8 answers · asked by MeeRaaNaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage does tend to get boring if you don't keep it exciting.
Get a hotel room and kidnap him for the weekend. Go to another town for a mini vacation. Do something out of the ordinary!
You need to remember what it was that you fell in love with to being with, and it sounds like you are in a rut.
2006-09-17 09:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with just the two of you cause it sounds like you could use some quality time together. Dinner, or if you both like to go bowling, play pool, skiing, hiking, white water rafting. Do things together.
Then as for the sex your going to have to figure out why it is that you aren't interested in sex anymore. Maybe you should see a doctor so they can help you out if needed. Other wise just try some new positions maybe a different location like in the shower or such. Good Luck!
2006-09-17 16:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t know your age or health condition, but if you are sure the problem is not medical, then try spicing up your sex life. Play some games, visit you local sex toy store, try different rooms, or different places (weekend trips and hotels). Any “same ole routing” gets boring after a while.
2006-09-17 17:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by 75160 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the term,stuck in a rut seems to fit,,if you still have love then the rest can be sorted,,,it may not be ideal to suddenly change bedroom tactics but if you were to go elsewhere you would definately get something different and exciting,,you would get to start over wouldnt you and do things you know would get you right in the mood,,,the things you can think of that you could do with another man are the things you need to do with him,,it happens but it can be sorted,,,vamp it up and he should respond,,its still you but a new,exciting you.
2006-09-17 17:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just going to a dry spell at the moment, have you two talk
try to do things to bring romance back into your life
everyone go to this kind of things in certain point of their marriage
the bast is if you still love each other you will find away to make it work
2006-09-17 16:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a check up, if your hormones aren't out of whack talk to a therapist, maybe your harboring some resentments that are turning you off.
Suck it up toots, orgasms are great, you can't tell me you don't like them....so pretend you want too and you just might surprise yourself and get turned on!
2006-09-17 16:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him at the door in some really sexy lingerie...do things like that to spice up your life!
2006-09-17 17:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will pass, just don't let him go without unless you plan on losing him
2006-09-17 16:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋