My parents applied for a foriegn exchange student to come live in our home. He is like from Africa or something. Last night was his first night. He said that it was a custom in his country that when someone is a guest in someones home that that person must sleep in the room of the youngest person of the opposite sex. Guess who is the youngest? Me!! My parents totally fell for it and gave him the bed and made me a pallet on the floor right next to him. He said that he wanted to teach me some things about his customs. My parents are so excited for me to learn about the world!! So last night after everyone went to bed he got these "toys" out of his luggage. I was scared and said that I was tired and didn't want to learn anything right then. But, tonight my parents said that I must stay in my room and let him teach me and he keeps saying that he can't wait for tonight!! I don't know, because sometimes I am a little clueless, but I think that he wants to have sexual relations!!!
2006-09-17 09:06:39 · 24 answers · asked by clueless clara 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What do I do?
2006-09-17 09:06:57 · update #1
What do you do??? You've been sexing around with a little bit of everybody and YOU want to know "what to do" - looks like you've lucked up and you've got right in your own bedroom a willing sex partner that close to your age - I'm sure you know what to do! :)
Right Clueless?
2006-09-18 01:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Topez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police right away, let them come to the house, and tell them that you do not want to be forced to sleep in the same room with this person because you do not trust him. Then let the cops lecture your parents about how stupid they are to let a total stranger share a room with their youngest daughter. I'll bet when the cops see the toys they'll make up their own minds.
2006-09-17 09:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Wonder Weirdo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents that he has to learn some American customs and strange boys don't sleep in young girls rooms, and if they persist in supporting his "customs", you're going to either go sleep at a relative or friend's or call the local police to report child abuse.
2006-09-17 09:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by holden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might want to assert that if you're contained in the difficulty that you're in at present you need to take a step again! It feels like each and every guy has expressed desires to marry you? it really is really a huge step! you assert you do not love guy B - get rid of him. He might want to imagine he loves you in spite of the undeniable fact that it feels like you've in basic terms been at the same time for a really short era of time. You 2 obviously don't have an same aims in concepts and that i imagine that its a touch weird and wonderful that he has already "sized" you for a hoop in one of those couple of minutes. With guy A - perhaps you need to sluggish difficulty down too. From what you write, it feels like he might want to have some emotional topics if he's threatening to kill himself because you "moved on" quickly. i do not see something sturdy popping out of this difficulty except you decelerate and take all of this in. no prefer to hurry into something that you'll sense sorry about later. sturdy success!
2016-11-27 20:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOLY CRAP! for real? omigod, your parents need to be smacked! what the hell are they thinking? i can not imagine in my wildest dreams that they would let that whole thing go down! what if he does try to have sex with you, are they going to gather around the breakfast table and ask you all the details? Call someone who has some sense who can get you out of that situation... i am mortified! i wish i could come get you ! good luck
2006-09-17 09:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by jennrabbitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a disturbing situation. Tell you parents that you don't feel comfortable sleeping in the same room as this young man, if they still force you to do it, call child services.
2006-09-17 09:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your other questions, it seems you could become a fiction writer. According to your other questions, you think you are pregnant by the school principle, your dad is on drugs and you have a boyfriend with weird parents.
2006-09-17 09:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by historybug 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is in your country to learn YOUR customs. Kick him out of your room and tell your parents in no uncertain terms that you will not put up with it.
2006-09-17 09:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. If they don't listen, tell an adult you trust. Call your teacher. Call other relatives. If none of those work, talk to a friend's parents. Never let anyone intimidate you! Do it NOW!!!
2006-09-17 09:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give you credit for one thing...coming up with a pretty original story. But this one gets a big WHATEVER!!!
If this were true, I believe a call to the police would be in order.
2006-09-17 09:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by Joe & Amy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋