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ok i took a pregnancy test last night it was negative but im 4 days late on my period im only 16 and im scared to tell my mom but im feeling very tired and dizzy sortave and feeling quite hot even in my room which is air conditioned plz no wise guys like well ur to young i no this u dont need to tell me so dont be smart i just need some help if i tell my mom im scared she will disown me like the rest of my family has do u think the test was right or could it be faulse results being that it would be really early ive told my bf he promises to take care of me he has a good job so really i should have to worry about money but im still scared could i really be pregnant as my period is always on time and i can pin point the exact day i will start plz help serious answers only

Answer 1

Get a home pregnancy test ASAP. Then if u r, u can work on how to tell ur mom. No sense in stressing out before u know for sure.

Answer 2

Not to scare you at all but with my last two pregnancies, my first tests were negative for the first few weeks after I skipped my period. People are right by saying that stress could delay your period, but so can sex.

In your area there is most likely a health center or planned parenthood where you could get another test done. If you are indeed pregnant, they will help you with all your choices, as well as, how you can talk to your mother about it.

I think that telling a parent that you are pregnant when you are young or even unmarried is a very difficult thing to do. I was 26 and unmarried (but living with my boyfriend) and had a hard time letting my mom know. I was afraid that I let her down in some way. After the shock of the news, she was very supportive of me.

Good luck with the situation.

Answer 3

Take another test, but take it first thing in the morning when you wake up. The result will be more accurate. Since you took the first test at night you may not have had enough HCG in your system built up. The only reason I know this is because I feel pregnant and I am 4 days late as well, and have been researching all night. Good luck to you, and like everyone says, take it one step at a time, try not to worry about telling your mom until you get a positive test.

Answer 4

Hey there :)

The best thing you can do right now is try not to panic. 4 days is not that late.

If you and your bf had an accident and it is causing you to worry about possibly being pregnant, there is a good chance that your stress levels are causing your period to be late.

Most of the pregnancy tests that are out now are designed to be able to tell as early as the first day of your missed period whether or not you are pregnant. If you got a negative result, it is most likely accurate. However, I would definitely take another one. I know they're expensive but invest in one of the name brand ones like e.p.t. They are really good and try to take it first thing in the morning. That is when your hormone levels are the highest.

If it comes out negative again, try your best to relax and see if your period comes in a few days.


I wouldn't discuss any of this with your mother until you know 100% that you are pregnant. No sense in stirring a pot that doesnt need to be stirred.

Answer 5

Ok I am going to answere you on a real level and not some fake stuff. I believe that there could be a way that all of this stress has caused you to fluctuate your period. I am sure it should be here in the next day or two if it is going to come. In your state do you have a planned parenthood? They are completly confidential and wont call your mom if you go take a test. They cant. Dont tell your mom yet becuase there is no reason for her to be mad at you and no need to alarm her if you are not pregnant. Wait a couple days and see what happends. Waiting is sometimes the hardest but you may have to on this one. Godd luck in whatever happends.

Answer 6

I was in high school when I had my first child also.. I get pregnant on August 19 and I did not know it.. I took pregnancy test all of August and September and finally only October 30 it came out positive.. You might just want to wait a little while longer and take a test as soon as you wake up in the morning.. That is when most of your hormones are more accurate and not deluted with all of the water.. Good luck..

Answer 7

Things can affect your periods like stress or diet so dont panic - get another test and if still late and the test is negative ask your GP for a blood test as they are more accurate. I'm glad your boyfriend is being supportive. Your mum I'm sure would be pleased that you confided in her if you do decide to tell her as you will always be her little girl no matter what. I hope you get the result you want. :-)

Answer 8

Trust the test..... it is possible to be slow in producing the HCG hormone and not detecting a positive until a few days after your missed period. Considering you are 4 days late and testing negative, then I doubt you are PG. Wait another 1-2 days and take another test to be sure.

If you are still concerned, go to a Planned Parenthood and ask them for a blood test.

Answer 9

Hopefully you are just causing all of this stress yourself. Stress can cause your period to be extremely late. Go ahead and buy one more test and wait maybe two more days and then take the test again.

The symptoms you are experiencing my just be PMS and your period may be on its way.

Use this as a lesson to use protection! You and your boyfriend are both responsible to avoid pregnancy at your early age.

Do you really want to be a Mommy at 16? I am twice your age and trust me, it is very difficult.

Good Luck

Answer 10

Sweetheart, my heart goes out to you. I too was 16 the first time I got Pegnant. I felt real sick when I smelled coffee brewing and eggs frying. I fainted in a store because I got over heated. But everyone is different. I was afraid my mother would disown me, but she only held me and cried with me, because she felt I had messed up my life. I think you know if you have taken a chance and gotten into trouble, but do you know a church member or a preacher that you can go talk to, they will be happy to talk with you and go with you to talk to your mother, remember you are never alone, Jesus loves you..

.P.S. I had a beautiful baby boy who has made me proud to be his mother. Good luck honey, and if you find out that you only have a virus, and are not preg. PLEASE make your bf use a raincoat if you are willing to be so careless and take chances with your life and your bf's life and maybe some little innocent babies life too. at least be careful and protect yourself. THINK FIRST...Because if you are preg..and do the right thing..the next 18 to 20 yeas are no longer yours to decide what you want to be when you grow up, you will be MOM.. That is the most precious title a woman can hold. God Bless You...Much love...Reba