over to my bf's house and we are 16. I didn't want to go home, so I spent the night with him in his room. We were having sex about 12:30 and his mom came into the room and was like ya'll need to quiet down and so we did. I never thought anything about it. So when I went home I told my mom where I was and she grounded me and she also called my bf's parents and cussed them out. She said that they never should have let me stay the night with their son. But, what is so wrong about it?
2006-09-17 08:18:38 · 13 answers · asked by clueless clara 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Ridiculous, like your other moronic postings. Perhaps your next posting will have your boyfriend's father (no, not your 40 year old boyfriend, your 16 year old boyfriend) telling you tearfully how much he loves you and wants you to wear his wife's clothes while he makes out with you...
2006-09-17 08:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are too young to be so serious with a boyfriend.
Sex comes with responsibilities and consequences. Your mother should have been look for you last night! What was she thinking! Your boyfriend's parents should not have let you stay with him in his room all night and should have insisted that you call your parents. The kind of relationship you are having should be reserved for grown-ups, which you are not. Take time to enjoy your youth, leave the problems of adulthood for later. Talk to your mother and try to explain your feelings about this boy and hopefully she will talk to you about sex, relationships, and responsibility.
2006-09-17 08:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by travelbug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is trying to be what is called a responsible parent. How much respect do you think your boyfriends parents have for him? Sadly they have even less respect for you.
What, I feel qualifies me to answer this is that I am a parent, with many children.
I'm not a prude more of a realist. Yes people in our society have sex at a young age. My children did and, while I didn't approve, I certainly couldn't condemn them for I had done the same thing.
But not condemning and condoning are two separate things. By allowing you to sleep together at such an early age these people are simply showing they are unfit parents.
You're Mother simply loves you, cares for you and, for your sake, cares what others think of you.
2006-09-17 09:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by bob kerr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, Parents are more protective of their daughters than of their sons. I am guilty of this also, It's a Dad thing. His parents should have been more responsible for this. If it had been their little girl, someone would have gotten their tail end kicked!. your parents should know where you're at too at age 16, out all night!. I would have had the National Guard out looking for you!!.
2006-09-17 08:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want you having sex at 16 that's what! I can't believe your boyfriends parents didn't do anything. Your mother should talk more rationally but grounding you was the right thing.
2006-09-17 08:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rizwan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does this one know you are pregnant with some 40 yr old's baby? If he did, I'm sure he wouldn't have let you stay the night.
2006-09-17 08:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents wanted you to come home, they should have talked to YOU, not your bf's parents.
2006-09-17 08:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your parents think that you are to young to be staying over at your boyfriends house!
2006-09-17 08:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are beating around the bush instead of telling you that your a hobag!
2006-09-18 08:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cra cra
2006-09-17 08:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋