i just moved in with my aunt and her husband,and he says nasty things to me and looks at me in certain ways.My aunt told me to tell her if something like this happens,but i cant.I have no where else to go and he provides for me.My aunt has no where else to go either.I want to tell her but then im scared that she is going to hurt him or he is going to hurt me.I dont want to mess their life up.what should i do?
2006-09-17 08:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by sugarcookie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should tell her because you want mess up their lifes ur uncle in law is messin up his life between ur autie and it's not ur fougth things won't get better until you tell your untie because he would try to mess with you or do some thing bad to you and he would think you won't tell because you haven't told yet be safe and don't do anything wrong
2006-09-17 08:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by ayrionna b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your school counselor immediately-immediately. The uncle in law may be both a pervert and violent. It is not for you to try to deal with him and you should not try. You need to get out of that house and to tell the counselor you need to. It is not safe, and your aunti has to already realize that so you need to too. When you are done speaking to the counselor you need to have a one on one with aunt and let her know you had to do this because you are afraid for both her and you. Be sure to ask the counselor that if your aunt should be interested would there be a woman's shelter she could go to so she could get away from that man if it comes to that. Bring that up to your aunt when you have that little talk-let her know how he is, what could happen to you and he could get angry and hurt her too, so you want to know if she would consider going to a shelter for abused women.
The shelters are nice, clean, safe, and help everyone who comes to them. If she does not want to go that is her choice, but you get out of there! You can do that by talking to your counselor aat school or calling a women's shelter directly out of the phone book and getting the wheels rolling but do it asap. Meantime, I will pray for the situation you are all in to resolve happily. Do not wait too long and do not let your aunt talk you out of getting out. Be mind made up firm.
2006-09-17 09:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by beverly p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u can't talk to your aunt about this, then definitely speak to someone else. maybe a counselor at school or pastor. anyone!!!! never be alone with this man!! you really need to get out of this situation if at all possible. do something before it's too late.!!!!!
2006-09-17 08:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jacksnurse89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont tell your aunt, he might try to do something with you and then you will have to live with the guilt. tell her now before this happens.
2006-09-17 08:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your aunt told you to tell her if something like this happens right? then tell her so she can protect you hon.if you don't then he will end up hurting you in ways that are cruel!.
2006-09-17 08:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your aunt it is what she asked you to do.If you let this continue your Uncle will start doing more then what he is now. take the chance and tell your Aunt. If you don't then it is your fault if he continues.
2006-09-17 08:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your uncle you do not like such kind of an attitude or u have an option to make it a mess up things in the way u can repair it.
2006-09-17 08:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by bat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really talk to somone if he thinks that way u need to be careful he may try somthing else so tell somone
2006-09-17 08:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your aunt
2006-09-17 08:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your aunt anyway.
2006-09-17 08:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by jbrasherjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋