hey soo i have a freind who is a big snot but i like to hang out with her cuz she is realy fun but i hate it how she is a big snob and thinks she is rich...should i not be friends with her and i do have other friends sooo ya but if no how should i brake it to her?
2006-09-17 07:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if shes such a good friend, you should talk to her about it.
be friendly and just ask her not to talk about it too much
xx
2006-09-17 08:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to take yourself into consideration. I have been through the exact same thing with friends. They were very snobby and in my opinion NOBODY has a reason to be that way. I talked to my Friend about it, asking her why she acted that way when i could plainly see she had hurt peoples feelings. I never got a answer out of her and she never changed. I just stopped hanging around her and her cohorts and I feel I am a better person for it. But I could always tell when someone I knew had been hanging around that particular group of people because it rubs off.
2006-09-17 15:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to help your friend. Talk to her in a friendly way, maybe she has some issues you are not aware of. Maybe even try to make it sound as a game, for example you playing a shrink.
Don't be negative about her, it won't help. Be positive, unassuming, and instead of saying "You are a snob" try to ask her Why she acts so. Maybe she feels a need to prove herself. If so, try to gently persuade her that there are other ways to gain self-esteem.
But above all, always bear in mind that she is your friend, you've seen something special in her to begin with, and therefore try to act like a friend to her.
Because friends is all we have.
2006-09-19 10:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sattva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and tell her to stop being a snob. If she says she's not, then give her some reasons. If she continues, just hang out with your other friends.
2006-09-17 15:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Paige♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my advice to u would be to let her know how she actin' call her out on it tell her, u aint down wit da way she actin' and if she doesnt seem to care or wuteva let her go, cuz i have a friend who i like but dont like cuz she acts likes she's betta than others not cuz she thinks she's rich or nothin' but she jus acts like she has no fautls, she's always puttin' me down, and i decided i had enuff and i told her, occasionally she still does it, but she's gettin' a lot better.
2006-09-17 15:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to explain to her how u feel,if that don't work then leave her behind,and tell her she needs to act like herself,not someone she is not.
2006-09-17 15:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c if they r crocodile tears r real. gudge by not tears judge by facts go where she wants to go . go even their home
2006-09-17 15:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by teshai7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋