i've never told anyone this but...heres the deal...i met my best friend freshman year..we are now juniors and very close....but the thing is over the past years...i think something clicked inside me..and i've developed feelings for him..strong feelings...i dont know what to do...we do everything together...he tells people he loves them and hugs just about anybody including me..but the thing that makes me wonder the most is..we went with my family on vacation for a week and we stayed at my aunts house for 2 days..when we where wathing tv..out of no where he kisses me on the temple....???..i didnt say anything..but i reagret it everyday..how do i know it he feels the same?...things havent been the same since..its real awkward..ughh i dont know what to do...can some help..maybe i can talk 1 on 1 w/ someone and give all the info????
2006-09-17 07:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by cubs_gurl97 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but how do i know if he likes me or not?...cuz it hurts when im so close everday but so out of reach....
2006-09-17 08:02:23 · update #1
and then last week..i said that i have a crush and he interrogated me on who...i said it was the celebrity haha to cover it up..and whe i ask him who he like he says no one ???
2006-09-17 08:06:25 · update #2
is there anyway to find out if the feelings are mutual...with ut asking directly...im not one to go right ahead and do things..were both kinda shy at these things
2006-09-17 08:22:12 · update #3
Yeah! I agree. Best way to know is to ask him(not directly, but with some hints)
2006-09-17 08:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you leave it, things are just gonna stay awkward or get more so. I think you need to do the strong thing and talk to him about it. If he feels the same way - then it'll be the best thing that's ever happened to both of you. If he doesn't, and you're good enough friends, then you'll stay good friends. If you value your friendship enough, then you must take active steps to overcome the awkwardness either way. Only you and him can do this, no on else is gonna do it for you.
2006-09-17 15:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by J P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that after that kiss things havent been the same, he probably does have feelings for you as well. The best way to know is just to go for it!! If youre friendship is that strong then it should be able to stand up to anything, so if he doesnt feel the same way towards you, you will still have your friendship.
JUST GO FOR IT!!
from someone who knows
2006-09-17 15:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its as simple as asking him...so u kinda have a crush..i kinda was in the same boat i fell for my friend and it was weird of course but it was worth it...the saying comes to mind its better to have love and lost rahter to not have love at all.(i think).but if your scared dont b u might just regret this...so ask him tell him wats on your mind and might find out that he feels the same way...if not at least you tried right and dont have to dwell on this ne more...so good luck wit it...n if you still need help msg me cuz ive been in my shares of relationships n all
2006-09-17 15:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by ragingxzn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO THIS: Anywhere and anytime you want to. Especially when he least expects it. Kiss him, just walk up to him and kiss. He'll love it. I've been married 3 years and my husband still says that that's the sexiest thing I've ever done:) Good Luck!
2006-09-17 15:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by josiedickelman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what exactly happened that day and if it really meant anything. you mustnt be so awkward around him, just act like you always had, because this could result in your friendship sinking. and dont worry, its very normal to fall for a "friend" of the opposite sex, its just because you guys have so much in common.
2006-09-17 15:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Nemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like u! and isnt it worth a shot? tell him ur feelings. b/c if he doesnt like u in return then he should help u move on and not let it ruin ur friendship. if he is a true friend than he will do just that. so take a chance (it sounds like he likes u anyways!) good luck! :)
2006-09-17 15:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth risking a friendship for something greater.
2006-09-17 14:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it if u think he likes u back.
2006-09-17 15:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋