This actually stems from problems with their own marriage.
Cheaters usually cheat because they are having problems in their own relationship and lack communication skills that would help their relationship. Instead of communicating they go about finding other ways to satisfy themselves thinking it'll make things better.
2006-09-17 08:10:52
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answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6
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Because in their feable little minds its not cheating.. to them u actually have to physically touch someone in order for it to be counted as cheating.. its their way of excusing their actions and not having to feel guilty for what they are doing.. unfortunately IT IS CHEATING..
How many times do u hear MEN AND WOMEN excuse men looking at Playboy or Penthouse ect because well its just pictures, they arent actually touching the woman, so its not a big deal.. so as long as they are looking and not touching, they are made to feel that its ok to do what they want when they want as long as they dont touch, but yet the same woman will get pissed cause their husband is watching a girl on the computer taking off her clothes and him materbating to her, and get pissed, or the man will get a hotel room and never touch the girl, but yet watch her get undress and possibly masterbate in front of her..or whatever but he see's this as not cheating cause he's not "touching " her.. This is why Porn shouldnt be allowed in a marriage especially when its one sided, one thing for a couple to view a movie together as a way of enhancing their sex life, its another when its given for one of the spouse to lust over and take care of business by themselves.. because it always eventually gets boring and they want to move it up a notch, to the point that one day theyve gotten away with it all, why not just go with the "FEELING" of the moment and actually physically have intercourse..
Last time i checked the wedding vows people take didnt say to FORSAKE ALL OTHERS except in mags, or on the pc.. FORSAKE ALL OTHERS MEANT EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING..
2006-09-17 15:11:06
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answered by brwneyedgrl 7
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i'm going through this right now. if you ask, you won't get a straight answer from them. but i think it's pure selfishness and a dangerous behavior that will eventually lead to a physical affair. married men shouldn't be doing these things. that is why they got married. they are not supposed to do things like this at anothers emotional expense. trust me, they never stop doing these things either, even if they say they've stopped. they just hide it.
2006-09-17 18:02:11
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answered by ♥2323vsb 2
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Simply wandering eyes,lustful need,horny unsatiable greed...men are very visual creatures.When is the line crossed between healthy interest and disrespect?It's a fine line.
2006-09-17 15:31:48
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answered by lotsalovetanya 2
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because they fail to understand the true meaning of MARRIAGE.
because there are many women out there who allures them
because of their previous life style, from which he couldnt disconnect himself and now spoiling his life
because our culture, our media, magazines everywhere they are hinting such topics and people are getting attracted to it
because there is lack of understanding between husband and wife
2006-09-17 15:01:47
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answered by Deepthoughts 2
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To find what they don't have at home. It's harmless.
2006-09-17 15:07:38
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answered by S K 7
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