okay soo last time i asked this question, i didnt get alot of responces.... i dont know how to ask this guy to the fair.... i am very in sacure about my self and i am really scared that he will say no... am i over reacting and how should i ask him out... this is the first guy i have ever thought about asking and was serious about it... all the others asked me so i am very umm how would you say it.... un experanced....
2006-09-17 07:25:58 · 11 answers · asked by Sierra D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to quit worrying about this. You already know the guy pretty well and you two talk all the time. All you have to say is, "Hey, let's go to the fair". And he will say, "ok". And then you'll go to the fair with him. And then you will be happy! So much to look forward to!
And by the way, take care of this silly thing in the morning. All of us are expecting good news from you later tomorrow.
2006-09-17 07:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am much older than you and have never asked a guy out, but here goes: The guys feel the same way when they have to ask us out, so give it a try. Next, the money issue: you need to get that straight ahead of time. The guy may think he should pay for everything for you and himself. He may not have the money. Get that settled when you ask him. You don't want to get turned down because he can't afford the date. Say something like, "my treat." Or if you know he has money, just go and it will work out.
Go ahead and try sweetie. You will never know until you do, then, just think, you will have more experience than the rest of us.
2006-09-17 14:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Do not think about it any more or you will be making this a huge thing. Just walk up to him and say, "would you like to go to the fair this wee? Maybe Friday.? You never know, he might say YES, if not you can start thinking about something else.
2006-09-17 14:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by lynddd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him and ask him if he's going to the fair. If he says yes ask him who he's going wiht if he says no one or some of my friends say "Do you want to come with me?" If he says no say "Well, I was wondering if you wanted to go with me"
Hope this helps :)
2006-09-17 14:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will take some courage, but you may regret if forever if you don't at least try. Maybe calling on the phone will make it easier.
2006-09-17 14:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him then, how would you know if you dont. Its now or never. If you dont, you might regret it. Introduce yourself, get to know him, then ask him. Good Luck.
P.S.- check your spelling, that's probably why you dont get a lot of responses.
2006-09-17 14:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by daydream♥believer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst he can do is say 'no'. There are going to be many times when people say 'no', so don't let it get to you.
2006-09-17 14:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing beats honesty...just be yourself and ask him if he wants to go with you to the fair. if you get rejected, so what! you have to learn to accept rejection, it's part of life.
2006-09-17 14:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by lord_love_rocket 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u dnt sum1 else will get ure skates on gal
2006-09-17 14:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha what you doing on -------- want to hang out with me , im going to tha fair
try that.
2006-09-17 14:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by spades c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋