2006-09-17 06:45:40 · 16 answers · asked by gures_ln 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shag his or her best mate... that usually works
2006-09-17 07:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by jonti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear this but take it as a normal part of your life. There are very few people out there married their first love and carry on for 50 years. Most people have a couple of relationship and there bound to be a hurtful one.
enrich yourself with something else, find a course you always wanted to do, keep up with old friends, go to church.
when you nourish yourself, you will find you're more able and confident to deal with the next relationship. take care.
2006-09-17 07:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The experience was painful and acknowledging it is the 1st step to recovery. It helps to have supportive friends and family who can be there for you. The more you force yourself to forget the more you remember (example exercise: try forgetting "onion" by saying over & over again for 2 mins - "forget onion, forget onion...") .
Don't rush. Pray and be patient. First love is not the last know that one day you'll be looking back and you'll be thankful for this painful but learning experience.
2006-09-17 06:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by aRGietee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple! just deal with it & move on with your life! it doesn't end just because your first love broke your heart! you'll still have a life to live & a lot of good things to experience & see! you just need to make yourself busy & be in public so that you will keep your mind from depression & forget about having a broken heart..Ü
2006-09-17 06:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel it and move past it, you'll feel something like that again, it makes your heart less able to trust next time, but makes you realise you can love more than one person which cancels out the old soulmate fable.
2006-09-19 08:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it may be your first time to be hurt, I guarantee, it won't be the last.
The best advice I ever had was, "Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back on the horse and ride."
Remember, if you weren't worth the time, then he/she probably wasn't either.
Life goes on and you'll survive. Best of Luck.
2006-09-17 06:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by seeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look forward to the next 50 times or more
2006-09-17 06:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by malaika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the second and so one,as you say is only the first ne,even if you can say:the first cut is the deepest ...
2006-09-17 06:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by ernstlamech 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go on with your life. you will meet another person. this person who broke your heart wasn't the one for you.
2006-09-17 06:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always remember it, and go on from there, the road in life is long
2006-09-17 06:55:13 · answer #11 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋