my husband was busted watching gross porn. i cant compete so now i just dont want him to touch me. now what
2006-09-17 06:43:34 · 7 answers · asked by HunnyBunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
weve done all there is to do. his complaint is hes tired. hes just not interested in me. i think its to exhausting for him.
2006-09-17 07:39:11 · update #1
left out one important detail. we havent had sex in three months.
2006-09-17 07:44:19 · update #2
you shouldnt need to compete.you both need to see someone for help, and also to see if you want this marriage to continue.
2006-09-17 06:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he has a problem with being addicted to it, then maybe you can suggest counseling.
If it's a major problem for you, then maybe you should sit down and talk to your husband and tell him it made you feel without yelling or getting verbally abusive.
If he listens and cares about your feelings then you two figure out a way to get past the incident and try working out your bedroom issues.
It's more a titillation device than an alternative. You might try exciting your husband yourself and then maybe he won't be so ready to turn to porn.
2006-09-17 07:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by frankly2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously wathcing it or was it something a buddy sent to him?
On a 1-10 how bad was the pr0n?
1 = naked photos
and
10 = multiple humans and animals mixed
Porn usually gets steadily worse from just lusty magazine pics, to naked photos, to softcore, hardcore and so on down the line.
Do you feel turned off or just not good enough? If you just feel not good enough wrap yourself in some saran wrap naked and watch his eyes bulge out his head.. .. thats hot.
2006-09-17 06:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by se7en 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel that way...The porn is on the tv he cant touch them he cant join them...Why don't you and him act it out together...
2006-09-17 07:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by diamondangel_85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either marriage counsling or leave him if it has come to this point
2006-09-17 07:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by sweet serinity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should compete with it,, is he asking you to do stuff you dont want to do???
2006-09-17 06:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit with him .... watch some ......... then bang him
2006-09-17 07:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋