im not even over whieght im 12 and im only around 125.
2006-09-17 06:02:40 · 20 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
The "boys" might be "sweet on you"(like you), at your age little boys don't know how to "act" around pretty girls. I sure didn't when I was your age.
When they start "showing-off"(calling you names) in front of their friends, just ignore them completely!!
When they realize you won't fall for their name-calling anymore, they'll stop.
At 12 I'm not going to say that 125lbs. is over wieght for you, because you are at your prime development of your life, and you girls can be so "picky" about your looks or how another girl looks. Just start watching your daily diet now, so as you mature you will look and feel healthier, and not be so prone to illness and disease, or suffer with "girl-problems" throughout your life.
Boys "picking"(name-calling) on you girls is just a part of growing up. Trust me, that will change as you get older...
2006-09-17 07:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by 1moe4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, they are just immature. Have confidence in yourself, you are beautiful and no one than tell you otherwise.
I do recommend you eat right and exercise regularily - this will make you healthier, and will help maintain a good figure as well as keep you looking radiant. Depending on how tall you are, 125lbs for a 12 year old may be on the heavier side - but no worries, everyone goes thru some sort of weight fluctuations during puberty, it's a part of growing up. Just continue to eat right and you'll be just fine.
2006-09-17 14:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by ninanina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you have plenty of growing left to do. Some people tease just to make themselves look better. You may have some of your baby fat still on for I don't know if you are 5'2" or taller, but you will grow into your weight and will probably be one of the best looking young ladies in high school and after. This is what people mean by "growing pains". Everyone goes through this.
2006-09-17 13:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by warandpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's for two reasons. Firstly, you may weigh more than the average girl your age, possibly because you have started developing earlier or maybe you are taller. However weighing more than average and being fat are not the same thing. And the other reason is because they are jerks, as you can see there are some posting on your thread. Take care : )
2006-09-17 14:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never know, they might even like you, boys are strange at that age. When I was younger I was a bit chubby, and boys made fun of me too. Eventually I grew up and lost the weight, and boys don't make fun of me anymore. Just stay strong and try to avoid them and ignore them. If it gets really bad confront a teacher or parent, and don't stop until the guys stop.
2006-09-17 13:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by zouk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they're full of sh2345. Guys that age will limit-test you. They want to see how much crap you'll put up with and what you'll do about it.Do NOT show any emotion when they verbally abuse you- ignore them. Be strong, be confident and, above all respect yourself. Stay at your healthy weight- do not diet, because if you start that at your age, it will be very difficult to keep it off when you get older.
2006-09-17 13:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have this guy friend, and he tells all my skinniest friends that they're fat, which makes no sense to me, because I definitely weigh a lot more than them, and he has never said anything to me. You never know, because that guy asked one of those girls out only a month later. So don't do anything crazy because of what they may say.
2006-09-17 13:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sudha M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say screw them, you don't sound fat, how tall are you? People continue to grow as they get older. Don't let what they say get to you, if it gets out of control go to a friend for advice.
Hope that helps, good luck.
2006-09-17 13:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Momo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you worry about guys teasing you. Don't take any notice in a few years they will be chasing after you
2006-09-17 13:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are twelve and weigh 125 lbs. you are overweight unless you are like 7 or 8 feet tall. Or if it's all muscle.
It isn'tnice of them to pick on you though.
2006-09-17 13:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by 1* 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋