Okay well me and my bf are getting closer to having sex..but My problem is that I shaved my pubic area and I like it that way but it comes back and it doesnt look appealing..I hate it because I feel uncomftorable with myself and Im scared of what he will think..He might think the same as me..and im scared and I dont know what to do.. I even have minor red bumps from the shaveing..I want to keep it shaved but when it keeps coming back, It gets on my nerves and it looks terriable..So now i feel uncomftorable about my body and I need advice on what to do...this is embaressing but I really need some nice people to help me..I would ask someone close to me but im to uncomftorable doing so...
Thanks.
2006-09-17 05:28:26 · 12 answers · asked by My-Feelings-Inside 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Don't worry about it it. Trust me guys are got gonna give a damn about it. Come on they find out that their gonna have sex! But I can understand where you're coming from with this. I shave because, I just feel a lot better. If you don't want to bumps, you need to wait for it to grow back at a certain point that it won't hurt to shave. Like if you try to shave it and you get slight pain wait for it to grow. It's also better to do it in the shower, like I do... just remember to clear the drain. If you don't like shaving at all and too shy to wax, try finding nair. (in fact.. .that's what I was thinking a few weeks ago, so I'm gonna see if nair will work) Also when you're done shaving make sure you put a mosterizer where you shaved.
by the way, please don't do anything sexually active until you completely KNOW HIM. Who his ex girlfriends were, how far he's gone, how long you've gone out with him. That will help you in life cause you can go out with the wrong person, have sex and wind up with something you didn't want aka AIDS, STDS
2006-09-17 09:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shaving away your pubic hair is very common. Tons of people do it. Unfortunately, it will grow back. If you like the look, then go with it. There is waxing, but it is painful, it will grow back and the bumps can develop. Baby diaper cream can help reduce the pink bumps after shaving. Why not ask him if he likes the look? If you are getting ready to have sex, you should be able to discuss the topic of pubic hair.
The link below has some suggestions as well.
2006-09-17 05:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing how old you are and/or how long you have been in this relationship, I honestly don't think guys REALLY care exactly how it feels down there, as long as you are clean. Shaving is a good thing, I think personally, for male and female. Shaving is a sign of keeping yourself clean and tidy and a little stubble down there shouldn't bother him much. A little tip for the shaving, if you let it grow for about 3 or 4 days then shave, the razor burn is less severe. Shaving upwards also helps for me, but maybe your skin is different. I know I used to worry all the time about how my partner felt if I forgot to shave down there that day, but they should be more worried about what else is down there, not the five o-clock shaddow.
2006-09-17 05:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try waxing ! as a hairstylist I recommend you try waxing,your red the first 30 mins after then gone untill the hair grows in,not itchy and blotchy and red,plus as a bonus with waxing the longer you wax for the less hair grows back! by the time your 18 you'll only need to wax a few hairs every month! I reccomend you go to a local hairdressing school they often teach their girls waxing and they could always use people to practice on ....and the price will be right up your alley!
two types of waxing for that area...
Bikini Wax
and Full Bikini Wax
2006-09-17 05:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16 & I usually shave the sides (bikini line) & i shaved my whole area 1 time & didn't like it becuz the stubble didn't look right and it was itchy so now it's been about 2 months and it grew back but thatz my las time doin that. As far as yo man is concerned most likely he won't care cuz if he does he don't need to be near yo p-u-s-s-y anyways.
2006-09-17 06:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by waves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u just start shaving? i used to get irritated down there from shaving when i first started.. i think its good not to shave every single day down there. also if you shave down instead of up first and make sure you put alot of soap or gel on you when you shave down there. i use a guy razor because it just works better.. a lot better. its called like mache 3 or something. maybe you should try using some bump reducing lotion if that exsists..
2006-09-17 05:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by GiiiRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww dont trip off of that if he says anything or you can tell him up front hey I shave down there so if you see that im all red and stuff dont think I have anything I dont . I let my boyfriend fiancee know up front hey im not in the best down there like if im on my period so on and so on . But dont be embarrassed anyways your having sex with this guy and I dont think he really cares to him in his lil head his getting some lol. guys are pervs
2006-09-17 05:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he will really care about what it looks like once he realizes you're going to have sex with him. Some people shave everyday and they get no irritation, some have to shave less to get no irritation. It all depends on your skin and hair type. Don't worry about it so much. It'll be ok.
2006-09-17 05:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 09:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, the hair growing back is always itchy and uncomfortable. I rarely am shaved (my husband likes it and he does it for/to me), and it always has a period of time that it is uncomfortable - but that goes away. Either talk to him before that time, about the way you like yourself.
I think that nature made us hairy for reasons - and I got my first UTI after my first shave, but if you don't like it then keep yourself shaved.
2006-09-17 05:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by Pegasus90 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋