It has ruined my life, i feel so alone. i lied to my parents n mariied her in the court. she is 6 yrs elder dan me. she has been divorced be4. she has a lotta health problem. v stay seperate...........she has verbally abused me n my mom. she has physically abused me. ppl in society who knw my family r making fun of me. dey say dat she is a psycho n she looks like my aunt. she is a career woman. dis has affected my mental n physical health. my church has also condenmed dis marriage. plzzzzzzzz ppl gimme some fruitful advice????????
2006-09-17 05:14:24 · 17 answers · asked by raving_metal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Re-read your question/problem..Whats wrong with this picture? All of it..you do not deserve to be abused mentally or physically..she wont change so u must leave her and move on. There is life after leaving an abusive relationship. Leave the house ASAP and get a lawyer to file for separation.
2006-09-17 05:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that stands out is you say your from a well to do family. Now could it be this woman isn't and she is embarrassment to you now since some one has made a comment about her looking like your aunt? If so then you need to come clean with her and explain that to her and that you don't love her and wish to marry someone with your social standing. Get a backbone and leave her if she is the way you said. Now if she isn't and you need to marry someone of your social standing then divorce her and next time make sure the family approves of the woman you intend to marry.
2006-09-17 06:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Verbal abuse is a real type of abuse and can be mentally scarring. If she's not willing to get counseling, get it for yourself and move on with your life. No one should be put down on a daily basis and no one should speak to your Mom that way either.
2006-09-17 05:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something you need to put up with. You need to be upfront and tell her how you feel. Let her know. Maybe some counseling will do as well. Once she does it she can't stop so you have to fix this now or else your life will be miserable
2006-09-17 05:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.And why are you still with her if the relationship is that bad,it's because you don't think you can fine something better.if someone really love you they do not hurt,abuse you physically or mentally.love do not hurt obviously no one can make you live her but you so hopefully you'll wake up soon and smell the roses
2006-09-17 05:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have married the woman in the first place. the only advice left is for you to get divorced from this woman.
2006-09-17 05:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your well-to-do family to get you a very good divorce lawyer. Get rid of her, pay her as little as possible (if anything) and get a restraining order if necessary.
2006-09-17 05:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a lawyer, and start divorce proceedings. You're never going to be happy with her, so why stay?
2006-09-17 05:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married her, you live with her. You should have spent more time getting to know her before you married her.
Also, an education is an important thing.
2006-09-17 05:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should move on man...she apparently doesn't love you cuz she is treatin you like crap.You sound like a good guy, it wont be hard for you to find someone, but you really should move on cuz no one deserves that
2006-09-17 05:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋