i know this sounds shallow, but i hear people of opposite sex can't be simply friends, there is always an attraction whoever slight.
any thoughts?
2006-09-17 04:58:42 · 18 answers · asked by sinnedfairy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just to be clear i don't pick friends because i'm attracted to them, it's just that i have quite a lot of male mates and some have propositioned me or mentioned that they find me attractive, so it got me thinking
2006-09-17 05:15:02 · update #1
Yeah i have loads of friends who are male. Some have said that i am attractive but have not asked me to take it any further. I find that my male friends are easier to talk to than my female ones!
2006-09-17 05:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by julianewcombe999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can! I have lots of bloke mates withno funny business. .
The problem I have is crossing that line, if you do fall for them, its a bit scary, but if you are proper pals he will be more sensitive about your feelings.
But I do have a lot of bloke mates who I am pals with who i have not fancied - one is gay and another is a 6'4 tall colleague, who attracts many women, enjoys my company cause he knows I respect him and I am not going to come on to him.
2006-09-17 12:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by km 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest i have more male friends than women friends, that's because most women are b**chy...and my male friends i can tell you are handsome sophisticated men, but we are just that friends nothing else, i know some of my female friends fancy some of my male friends, but i value the friendship more than to jeopardize it just because i got the hots, or because they are attractive.
2006-09-17 12:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this may be truei hope it's not but theres this guy at uni we hang all the timke but everyone thinks we fancie eachother some irls r saying he fancies me but im not attracted to him so i suppose one could feel one way about the other but the other one not feel the same it would be a shasme if it was true though it's bad to have tyo be boy friend and girl friend to talkk to a boy without flirting
2006-09-17 12:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by lulu l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have male freinds that i don't find attractive at all !! I think maybe it's guys who sometimes struggle with having a platonic relationship with a female !
2006-09-17 12:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been, but at some point the relationship will approach the subject of sex. The friendship can end either way, yes or no.
2006-09-17 13:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. I have friends of the opposite sex and more so than not, they are below average. I like people for their personalities, not their looks.
2006-09-17 12:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposite attracts - its up to you to maintain the kind of friendship that you want
2006-09-17 12:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by MICKY T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i am friendly with anyone who wants to have a good friendship without taking advantage of the other person
2006-09-17 12:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by ganesh_vnyk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true im male i have lots of girl and boy mates
i hang around with them because they r fun and like to av a joke not coz what they look like
2006-09-17 12:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by D@n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋