i dont know what to do. i was with this guy for a year, then we broke up for about two months. during those two months i met this other guy, and made me feel like no one has before. but aparently he took some mushrooms and he was diagnosed as drug induced physcosis. but honestly, i think he jus makes it worse on himself. because hes not crazy, he works, he drives, he can deal with normal life. he jus over analyzes himself and makes harder for himself. i dont know, but despite that i still am completely in love with this kid. and i know it may be dumb to say that because ive only been hanging out with him for 3 months, but this feeling is like no other. i thought i was in love with the kid i was with for a year, but i must not be.. because all i want to do is hang out with the other one. im back with my old boyfriend, but its just not right.. and i have such a guilty conscience. i dont know if i should try and work thing out with my boyfriend and give up on the other.. or break up him..
2006-09-17 04:54:29 · 9 answers · asked by GiiiRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he doesnt use drugs anymore. it was a one time thing. he doesnt even smoke cigs anymore and wont even sip a beer.
2006-09-17 05:19:49 · update #1
Visualise your future with each one. Do you like what you see?
2006-09-17 06:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a complex situation and there is no easy answer for that. I know from personal experience that any drug use will only end if the user wants it to end. There is no changing a person or forcing their choices.
That being said i believe he did make you feel special and loved. You should focus on that and use that part of the relationship as a model for the next good relationship. Find a man that makes you feel that way that isn't into drugs.
I think you and your old b/f were a good starting point but it seems you have both changed and it is time to move on.
Starting a new relationship is not a goal it is more like a journey and you should find that path simply by doing what you love and enjoy or feel compelled to do, When you are in a good place the right person simply seems to show up :). Take care and I wish you the best of journeys.
2006-09-17 12:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by Robert E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don`t feel right in your relationship and want the other guy so much I think you should do what your heart is trying to tell you. Go for the one you love and be happy. Staying in a relationship and trying to work it out when your heart is not truly in it will never work out. You will end up regretting your decision and always wonder "what if?" You also might end up really hurting your boyfriend because you will resent him for not being the one your heart desires. Never settle and always do what makes YOU happy. Good luck!
2006-09-17 13:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel but, Drugs should never come between yous. He has to stop using and learn to respect himself and others first.. I am sorry if you don't like what I 've said.
2006-09-17 12:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by m. kellner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. i m a guy and lemme tell you.. it all depends on you girls.. the thing is that you should see who made you feel better/
1. during the 1 year did you love your boyfriend more than the other guy?
2.during your break off with your boyfriend did how much did he attempt to get you back
3.do you really think that that kid is more wrth to love than your boyfriend??..
and personally i think you should take a test of both of em..a practical test.. think about it... because its your choice and you cant repent on it later........so be careful
tell me if it worked out.. e mail at coolrajexp@yahoo.com
2006-09-17 12:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart let both of them go.... take time out and recognise that you're falling in and out of love... too quickly and that basically you're just yearning to feel love, be love and to love back ( it's a normal feeling we all have them ) so why don't you take all these feeling of love and give them to your family for now,I'm sure they will appreciate it.
Love will come softly... when your ready.
2006-09-17 12:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its up to what u could handle of course
but sometimes its not wrong to love 2 ppl
in the spirit we'r all one person so whats the big deal?
2006-09-17 14:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by heartofglass 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you hang out with the one that uses drug in no time you to will be useing them you have my word on that
2006-09-17 12:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no, not another teenager boyfriend, girlfriend question!
2006-09-17 11:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋