How jealous are you - what does your partner have to do to get to you?

Question

For example, my mum used to slap my dad when she saw him look at another woman on the street.

Answer 1

Not much. I get jealous quite easily. The thing is, I never show it. Haha.

I'm always jealous of my guy's exes. So just put them in the picture and it's instant jealousy.

A little tiny bit of jealousy is healthy, it shows that the other person still cares.

Answer 2

Well to me it is useless to slap a person who is with me for looking, i mean that won't stop them. If my partner did that in front of me and shamelessly, then i would tell him off, since i would consider that as a lack of respect. Now it is foolish to think that while I'm not there he won't check some good-looking girls passing by. I mean if a guy is good-looking i would look at him, and probably think "wow great ***" but instantly my second thought would be "my baby's *** is sooo much better and cute".

"The fact that you are not hungry does not stop you to look the menu huh?"

Again, depends on what kind of looking we are talking about. When i see a guy who is really handsome it is just that to me... a handsome guy. Empty feeling, no feeling at all!

Once more, don't check the menu too often or shamelessly or else you WILL get slapped!!

Answer 3

Nothin, never been the jealous type dude,
I feel Jealousy is for insecure people, if
you got wound up at every little thing, life
would not be worth living, No offence man
but your mum has obviously had issues,
wether with your dad or someone prior, its
a shame for your dad, having to put up with
that cant be good, hes lookin, not touchin, there
is a difference!never bothered me when we were
younger when me and my gal went out, its who you
go home with that matters, talk to your mum on
your own see if you can help her, it maybe something
you can resolve, even between the three of you,there
maybe a specific reason why mum is like that, dont ask,
dont know! all the best with it man, Jealousy aint good :

Answer 4

my husband is either totally devoted or extremely discreet ,about fancying anyone else. as he is not a big flirt , i have not had any reason to be jealous, so I suppose if he began behaving differently i would be concerned. it won't help to be jealous, as there is not much one can do , when someone is attracted to another. i would not want a man who acts like a pervert to check out another woman, by literally craning his neck. any man stupid enough to act like that in front of his woman , is saying that he has little respect for her,or the other woman . it is quite o.k for him to point out someone who he does think is attractive, as they say , you can look at everything that 's on the menu , but don't try to taste it all.

Answer 5

I'm so jealous, i used to rip page 3 out of the sun before my hubby took it to work(i'm not exaggerating). I am divorced now but have a live in boyfriend and i hate it when a pop video comes on the telly eg shakira,I think that he is looking at her and wishing he was with her instead of me.. . sometimes i cover his eyes if a sex scene comes on the telly cos i dont want him seeing other womens bits and getting a hard on . Think i need help as i have talked to other women who dont do the things i do.

Answer 6

To be honest me and my partner have the most solid relationship, but the thing is he is only jealous if a good looking man talks to me, but if the man looks my direction, he's not so wound up, but i don't really get jealous because i trust him, and i know women find him attractive, because he's beautiful, but I'm confident within myself, and know we have a real deep love that cant be shaken by jealousy.

Answer 7

The answers you receive to this question will represent how secure people are in the relationship, as well as themselves....a very good question too!!
For me, I don't feel I have the right to control another person, so therefore I really have no boundaries. I think its up to ones own conscience if they feel they have betrayed a trust, they are the ones who have to live with it.

Answer 8

Jealous people are among the worst you can meet
i myself avoid it wholeheartedly
Though my partners over time seem to have welcomed it with open arms

Tony

Answer 9

Jealousy is a negative emotion that I have no time for, my philosophy is if someone is attracted to someone else and they want to be together they will no matter who doesn't wish it to happen, that's fate. My partner doesn't do things like that when I am around out of respect for me, if he does things like that when I am not around I don't care.

Answer 10

If i see my chap eyeing up another woman, I just yell out in earshot " did you remember pick up your pile cream from the chemist?" or i eye-up a man nearby and mutter under my breath ( within earshot of my chap) "ooh i bet he's better in bed". It usually works!