By not trying too hard to impress them
2006-09-17 03:13:52
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answered by toietmoi 6
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Don't put them on a pedestal. Don't go out of your way to impress them, they've seen that crap before. Be confident. Don't tell them they are beautiful, especially if they are model material. Talk to them as if you talk to beautiful girls all the time and if possible find their insecurities, tease them, play with them, make yourself out to be the prize and they will want to win you. Dress immaculately, smell amazing, act look and feel as if you're the s hit. Be the leader in your group of friends, the instigator, approach groups of women and start talking to them. Never be boring, give women the impression you're in demand and busy. Don't give away too much about yourself. Ask questions that lead to women talking about themselves- which they love to do. Appear as though you are fearless, always in control of your environment and emotionally stable. Don't pay for everything, don't be nice. Make a woman work for your attention. Don't call her unless it's to set up a date or cancel one(because you got a better offer, don't tell her that though). A good way to impress BEAUTIFUL women is to be seen with other BEAUTIFUL women. This sparks their interest and makes them curious about that guy over there with the hot girls. "Is he rich?'' she'll think. "Maybe he has a BIG d ick?". "I bet he's so much fun!". "Can he last all night, hmmm?". Curiousity is a great weapon when hunting the beautiful prey.
If you are single make sure you date as many women as possible. Compatibility is a numbers game.
I have made the mistake of falling for an extremely beautiful girl who turned out to be rather unintelligent and the relationship went south due to that. Don't make that mistake and lower your standards.
Keep your options open until marriage as women(beautiful or not) do this routinely and always have something to fall back on if things don't work.
This isn't a mysogynist or pessimistic view. This is reality.
The female mind is not logical in attraction, love etc. Doing nice things won't impress BEAUTIFUL women.
Be:
Confident
Funny
Unemotional
Dangerous
Mysterious
Available one day, totally unavailable the next
Don't be too deep early on, give little bits away here and there
Basically stay interesting, because when a girl loses interest she's gone or cheating on you.
If you're looking to find a BEAUTIFUL girlfriend to have a committed relationship with you have to be VERY picky and definitely get to know her very well.
Keep in mind women should be judged by their actions and not what they say as they are usually two entirely different things.
One site that has helped me with my game is becomeaplayer.com.
Even if you are looking for a one-night stand pick up at a club, there is a certain courtship you should follow.
Get out there and start approaching beautiful girls and talking to them like it's nothing, very soon it'll be second nature and you'll realise a very valuable lesson. People are people, some just have a pretty wrapping. Don't let society's infatuation with beautiful women influence you to look at her like a goddess and you a mere mortal male. WAKE UP!
Check out this site becomeaplayer.com
Finally, do a little study and GET OUT THERE and put it in to action. Thinking will get you only so far.
p.s- JP the answerer a bit below me gave an awesome answer. Definitely check out what he has to say.
2006-09-17 10:49:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Firstly you must realise that girls, like guys, are all different. They are all unique and have different interests, likes, dislikes, music tastes etc. Therefore not all girls, beautiful or otherwise are going to be impressed by the same things. Some girls are superficial, some aren't. Some girls like their guys MAD BUFF. Some just like their guys to be slim and toned. Some girls like their guys fat; though this is rare. Some girls like guys with lots of money and expensive looking cars, some girls like guys with a sensitive side who are more down to earth, etc etc.
But a few points that you should take into account which are pretty universal are as follows...
Generally girls don't like skinny little runts. A fundamental aspect of masculinity is strength and size. Again maybe this is not for all girls but generally girls like a guy they feel safe with, someone who could protect them if necessary, not someone who would cry and run away. Get into some sport, work out every now and then - you'll notice your confidence will improve as you do. FACT: girls dig confidence. If you are not confident, then you are unsure of yourself and you exude WEAKNESS. Weakness in a guy is very unattractive, and in general an immediate turnoff. Imagine being a girl - would you wanna be with someone who lacks confidence?
Secondly, be an individual - be yourself. Know what you like, what you dislike, what you're about, what you're not about, what you want, what you don't want, what you're good at, what you're bad at etc. A lot of people say "just be yourself", but in reality, especially when you're young, you don't really know how to "be yourself" or what "being yourself" really means. Don't worry about this too much in the long run, your sense of self will increase as you mature and you go through life experiences. The more you experience things, the more you learn about yourself. So having said that - it's important that you go out and experience things, do a lot with your time, go out and try new things. New things are often scary, but you must overcome that fear with the knowledge that it is important to try them. YOU CAN'T NOT TRY 'CAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID OF NOT SUCCEEDING. Don't underestimate the value of experience.
Being an individual means being different. When you're young and maybe in school, being different is difficult. Everyone is busy trying to fit-in, doing their best to not be different, and when you are different you often get slated for it. After school, when people grow up and have a better sense of who they are, they realise that being different is a good thing and the more individual you are the more respect you get (in general).
Remember that anyone with a tenner can buy a girl chocolates and flowers. This does not necessarily make you attractive, it doesn't necessarily make you cool or make them want to sleep with you or go out with you. What's more likely to impress a girl is a guy who's nice, but not overly nice, confident, but not so confident that he is arrogant, fit and toned, CLEAN, has their own (individual) dress sense, considerate (but don't take this to extremes 'cause it can get annoying), kind, caring, INTERESTING (again, the more things you have experienced, the more interesting you'll be), honest, etc etc etc - I'm sure you can work the rest out.
Hope this has been helpful, as it's taken me about 20/30 mins to write it :O) But I know I certainly could've done with this advice when I was younger and perhaps in the position you're in now.
One final point - learn to not need girls so much. Yes at times they can seem like the most important thing in the world, and yes you wanna be with them and sleep with them etc. But there are other things in life that should be of equal importance - like friends, family, YOU, etc. If a guy is really needy towards a girl, it rings alarm bells about how well-balanced the rest of his life is, and thus how well-balanced he is.
Enjoy growing up.
Peace.
2006-09-17 11:23:11
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answered by J P 2
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beautiful girls dont get impress really easily. because they have different kinds of guys chasing them. Like you. Just dont try too hard. get to know them, be nice. thats all. dont show that you want to impress them. just be nice.
2006-09-17 11:13:20
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answered by icegirl_dayana 1
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Beauty differs person to person. What you mean by beauty?. If you want to make her your partner, ask directly and say so. If you you want other ways also, you can tell her. If she is interested she will one way other way let you know.
2006-09-17 13:39:59
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answered by Anonymous
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the same way you would impress non beautiful girls numb nut
2006-09-17 10:13:33
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answered by sleepwalker69 6
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...IF U SEE HER EXTERNAL BEAUTY ALONE U R DISQUALIFIED...IF U SEE HER INTERNAL BEAUTY ALSO THEN U HAVE A CHANCE, IF U UNDERSTAND WHAT HURTS HER AND WHAT MAKES HER TO SMILE...U CAN EASILY IMPRESS HER...
GIRLS ARE SIMILAR TO CHILDREN,THEY ARE A SPECIAL KIND OF Angels....TO IMPRESS ANGELS BE HONEST TO HER, THERE ARE SOME DEVILS IF YOU WANT TO IMPRESS THEM YOU NEED VITAMIN "M" AND NEVER TELL HER TRUTHS...
2006-09-17 11:09:32
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answered by vimal.N 2
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BE NORMAL. DONT TRY TO SHOW OFF UR STYLE. JUST BE WHAT U R. AND BEING A GIRL LET ME SUGGEST- go for a retrosexual look. Not the metrosexual one
2006-09-17 10:17:38
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answered by ippi 1
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i like a guy who is funny, sweet and agrees with me ;) if u're trying to make a good impression on a girl make sure u compliment her shoes!
2006-09-17 10:13:48
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answered by Anonymous
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in the present days, i hope it may be your impressive financial status in the first, your conduct is next and lastly saying YES to every wish of her.
2006-09-17 10:22:07
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answered by durga m 1
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