me n my sis used to be relle close. we are only 2 years apart. but now these days...she is a couch potato. she sits at the computer with the T.V. on the side and talkin on 2 phone at the same time. I on the other hand, I am all out of being active. i do cheerleading, gymnastics, and im on 4 softball teams. She complains because I always hang out with our friends out here and they all want me to hang out with them b/c she never comes outside. i live with my dad and she lives with my mom and she thinks i am stealing all of her friends. is this my fault? i feel kind of bad.
2006-09-17 03:10:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are a real (not relle) poor speller. The truth is that as you age you find different interests in life. You sound like you are too involved in outside activities and have no time for her. If you are never there for there to be time for a relationship, then how can you have one?
Maybe her answer to you spending so much time gone from home involved in your interests is to hide her sense of loss in the computer and phone.
A relationship, be it with a sibling or with a prospective mate takes effort and work by both parties involved. I suggest that you give up 3 of your softball teams and try spending more time with your sister. She in turn needs to spend less time on the phone and computer.
Find a compromise, go shopping and out for lunch together. Do things together that you both used to enjoy. Or find new things to do together if those old things are now to childish for your ages.
2006-09-17 03:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault at all! She is the one who doesn't want to be social...what are you gonna do right? Try your best to get her out and never give up. You are having fun and living your life and getting closer to her friends. It is her fault if they hang out with you more...your the one who wants to be social.
2006-09-17 03:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl it's not your fault. the both of you have different things that you like to do and as you get older, you'll grow a part a little bit. You should plan a day for the both of you to do something you both like to do. get in the habbit of that, and then get your friends to be a part of it again.
2006-09-17 03:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lakenya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yr fault.
She needs to get out into the real world.
2006-09-17 03:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to go outside and hang out before she gets really fat and grumpy.
2006-09-17 03:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by lop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, it's not your fault.
2006-09-17 03:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds depressed. you should really have a heart to heart talk with her. she needs her sister as well as friends.
2006-09-17 03:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she lost her self esteem you just be your self
2006-09-17 03:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is her fault
2006-09-17 03:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋