brings a lot of drama with her so my husband does not talk to her on myspace so the dumb girl made up another profile and now she is going by another name. I have told her to stay the hell away from the house and she keeps standing by the house hoping to be notice. And when she leaves my husbands messages i live her one back but not a very nice one, And then she goes crying to him and saying i am starting **** on line. I have done everything i can except whop her ***, like i want to since she wants to play like a grown up i will whoop her *** like one, what should i do. She thinks someone is playing games.
2006-09-17 02:59:03 · 29 answers · asked by Newlywed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is 16, you and your husband are adults. How about doing the adult thing and ignoring her.
Do you think your husband is going to leave for her? I don't understand why you would be so jealous.
You are married, but exactly how old are you? Seems you are both playing high school games and are BOTH full of drama.
It is a crush, crushes happen. Nothing ever comes of one.And it is quite common for a teen to have crushes on older men around them.
I don't see any reason to be nasty to her at all.
Ignore her and eventually she will find someone/something else to take up her time.
2006-09-17 03:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs help. MySpace really has brought about problems for some people who take it too seriously. Note, a woman just paid to have another woman killed because she sent her boyfriend pictures of herself. Why do you even associate with a 16 yr old? I don't know why you would talk to her or why your husband would talk to her.Please tell me that the two of you do not socialize with her. FYI the nasty messages and starting sh--- are beneath you. You are an adult. Handle it like an adult. You and your husband need to ignore her- first by standing together and telling her that your marriage is solid, your husband has no interest in her, that you expect her to cease any stalking behaviour or the police will be notified etc. Have a witness present.Then you need to work on yourself, because if you are threatened by a 16 year old girl, you have a problem.Your husband should do the same re even paying attention to online drama.
2006-09-17 10:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old your husband is. If he is young, perhaps he likes the attention and is flattered by it. You need to be more grown up about this. If it really bothers you, set some rules that your husband better follow and perhaps have a talk with the girl's parents if you can. You might also file a formal complaint with the authorities. She could be a Juve (Juvenile Delinquent) and if her parents don't give a damn about her, perhaps the State will.
2006-09-17 10:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bob A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world is your husband on Myspace????DUH!!! Sounds like he has something going, sweetie. Don't blame everything on this girl. You need to discuss this with your husband. He should not be talking to these single females on anything.......what is the matter with both of you??? Is anyone forcing him to talk to her??? I smell a rat!! You need to clear this up with hubby and stop blaming it all ont he 16 year old! I would say you have some serious issues here.
2006-09-17 10:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start off by saying I feel ya girl, that is some freaky crap right there! Good thing your husband is not giving in to anything. I would go to her parents and let them know that if they do not do something and leave you and your husband alone you are going to go to the police. You can get a restraining order against her and if she still comes around you can actually send her away.....go through the parents and if it doesn't work bring the authority into the situation. Good Luck to you!! :)
2006-09-17 10:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What's your newlywed spouse doing on myspace anyway? She is not the problem. She is only a child. He is the problem. If he doesn't make clear to her that he won't entertain any of her msgs and remarks about his wife. He is enjoying the attention and is probably more patient with her recognizing her youth instead of viewing her as competition.
2006-09-17 10:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult question. Have you even been discussing about this with your husband seriously? I think the main problem one is him ...not her. Stop answer her back completely. I know it is hard to do but please try. collect all the messages she wrote to you or your husband. Wait until you got a bunch of it, then show them to her parent. I believe you are a maturely lady but not her. Why should we low our self down same as her?
2006-09-17 10:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by pimpa1949 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your husband provoking this attention from this girl? Seems you really might need to find out. Keep a closer eye on them both! Keep your friends close and your enemies closer...psychological warfare is far more effective than physical.
2006-09-17 10:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get sent to jail for hitting a minor. Then while you are away no telling what will happen between them. You need to check your husband because he is the adult. Something is wrong and you need to get to the bottom of it. Have you talked to her mother?
2006-09-17 10:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tyler&Noah's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking in the wrong place.
You can only fix this problem effectively through your husband not with her directly.
If he doesnt stop her by telling her straight out its got to stop and that it is causing friction in your family then I would question his motives for not putting an end to it... this is where your problem is, not actually with her...he must do it, not you.
2006-09-17 10:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋