I do love her, but shes being a ***** and blaming **** on me.
2006-09-17 02:44:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Will it makes things worse if i dont say it?
2006-09-17 02:47:00 · update #1
Yes. And you know it - so just say it and hang up...Time will heal the 'madness' . It is like money, comes & goes...good luck.
2006-09-17 02:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you're frustrated with her make sure you mean it if you're going to say it.
You said you do love her, so just because she is being difficult, doesn't mean you stop have feelings for her.
Sit her down and tell her by looking her straight in the eyes and let her know how you feel about her, and also the blaming.
If she is blaming you without reason, then tell her how important it is for you to have her trust you. If you have done something for her to blame then explain to her where you were then and where you are now...
Fights and arguments are not the end...its what we do with them that can make us be even stronger than we were before.
So as far as saying it...i think your dilemma is clear...you are mad at her...but saying i love you does actually remind the both of you about how you feel...
2006-09-17 10:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say that, just make sure you are sincere about it. If you really love her, then say it. If you don't, then don't. She can tell. When it comes to relationships, fault is not the issue. When you disagree, it simply means no more than that, you disagree. Since you are both individuals, especially very different individuals, by virtue of the fact that one of you is from Venus, and the other from Mars, you are bound to have differences. The key to balance out these differences is "give and take" (compromise), you both have to do it for things to work out in the long run.
2006-09-17 09:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bob A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always say I love you when you hang up with someone that you really do love even when you're mad at them. You never know what's going to happen when you hang up that phone and if you'll ever get a chance to say it again....make sure she knows it no matter what, even when youre mad, just in case.
2006-09-17 09:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by jeffsgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then tell her. You never know could be your last day on earth and if you dont say it you are going to wish you had. No matter what you should always say it even if you are arguning. Even better why not make up with eachother?
2006-09-17 09:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be a good idea to tell her that you still love her. You can argue and be mad at each other, but don't forget that you love each other after all of that. She may need to hear it from you so she doesn't wonder if you are so mad that you don't love her anymore.
2006-09-17 09:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For you to even ask this question, I'll assume that you want to say I love even at the end of a quarrel. Then go ahead and say it. It's not easy I'll give you that especially just after a nasty quarrel, but for a woman it does help to know that you still care/love for her.
2006-09-17 09:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by govinjann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should! it'll make things a little better at least, and some times you need to remind each other, particularly when you're angry. everyone's an a** at some time or another.
it's nice that you're willing to say that in the middle of a fight btw. there should be more men like you around!
2006-09-17 09:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by runtotheangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her, there is no reason for you not to tell her so...no matter if you're mad at her at the time or not. If a little tiff can cause you to think you don't love her -then end the relationship now as you're not prepared for it.
2006-09-17 09:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anger and love are two different things. If you love her say so. Let her know you think that you both need to readdress the situation later and you need time to think about it with a clear heard so you need to hang up, but you love her.
2006-09-17 09:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying, "I love you" and she's mad will burn her up. Say it loud and clearly. Maybe she will hesitate before responding. It will be a possibility of catching her off guard and all. Especially when she is being nasty to you. It takes a real man to say I love you and she is acting out of character.
2006-09-17 09:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋