2006-09-17 02:01:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Congratulations. You will have a beautiful baby.
2006-09-17 02:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
You are not pregnant with a black baby. You are pregnant. If your are white and other is black then you are going to have a mixed baby as far as color. At one month there is know way you can tell its color.
By the way before you spread your legs you should have thought about your racism that you seem to have.
We are praying for your baby to be healthy and strong.
2006-09-17 02:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no disrespect but why did you not have a condom laying around? Why are you not on a pill?? If you kill the Baby, there it a Chance that you will have no more Kids.If you have the Baby you can give it up to a foster home and you will have kids. that is the two ways to go. You pick. If you had a baby by the same Race as you are, What would you do????
2006-09-17 02:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date anyone of another race unless u totally and fully accept that person for all that they are. I'm not sure if u really accepted and embraced everything about this black man, including his race. If u had, I don't think u would be having 2nd. thoughts about having a bi-racial child. U would want nothing more than to create a child that is both parts of u and he. To hell w/ what the world thinks, it's not about us. But, personally, I love seeing mixed marriages and the product of a bi-racial child. That's the only way to combat the racially divided lines in our society. And being a bi-racial child myself, and as the mother of two bi-racial children, we consider ourselves to have the best of both worlds. Raising ur child w/ good morals and self respect is what any and all children need to survive in this world. But, in order to do that U need to accept and learn how to embrace ur "differences", because U will be seen as "different". You have chosen to step outside of the "norm" by dating a black man. Good luck w/ what ever decision u make. Just remember that this child is both parts of u and the father. If u destroy his part,u destroy yours. U have a chance to raise a child against the "grains" of society, and love ur child no matter what "society" thinks.
2006-09-17 02:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know it's black? You should accept the baby because you obviously had relation with a black man if you know this. I just don't understand how a person can have no problem with a person's race until it comes to conception. If he was white enough to have sex with then why isn't his baby white enough for you to love? Remember, don't have sex if you wouldn't be willing to have his child. That's why I'm still a virgin.
2006-09-17 02:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am sorry for being so rude. If you are stupid enough to ask such a DUMB *** question. You need to have this baby give it up for adoption. Then go have your tubes removed.
Apparently you was being a little whore and slept with a black man. There for the END result would be to have a BI-RACIAL baby. Are you even sure it belongs to a black man?
2006-09-17 02:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did color matter when you were sexing this guy, or were you just trying to see if the myth was true about black di**. Now forgive me if by chance you had been raped, then I apologize, but If this sex was concentual, you need to be slapped for asking that question. Deal with it!!!! He should know you asked that. Who's opinion are you worried about anyways, its a new da** day. Everybody is mixing these days, It just goes to show that everybody is really the same, our bodies function the same, we only have pigment differentials. My goodness, I may not live to see that day that race doesn't matter But I sure hope it comes.
Is it true, now that you have gone black , will you go back
2006-09-17 02:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by rhondwht4 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does color have to with it? If you don't want the baby then have him/her and give him/her to someone that will love it. If you are afraid of what people might say then go somewhere no one knows you to have the baby and then give him/her up. Then go back and either say that you lost the baby or that you just came back from a long R and R.
2006-09-17 02:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not the babys fault. You should have the baby and if you decide that you can't raise it then adopt it out to a loving family. If you keep the baby you should love it children are a precious gift from god. God only gives you what you can handle, so he must have thought you could handle this.
2006-09-17 02:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
are you still with the father or was it a one night stand. How can you be sure its black, is this guy the only one youve been with recently. Not enough detail.
How do YOU feel about the baby and why is its colour an issue?
2006-09-17 02:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get good prenatal care. Take care of yourself. Eat right and get plenty of sleep. Learn how to be a good mom. If you don't want it, start looking into adoption. There are lots of people that would love a beautiful biracial baby. An unhealthy baby is another story so avoid drugs, stress and alcohol.
2006-09-17 02:03:36 · answer #11 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋