And confess your love to the world? Or do you keep pretending? Or just break up the relationship and be friends? My problem is that the guy that I love is stuck on a moral that is stopping him from fully commiting to me. You see he knew my ex, ex-bf. and is still freinds with a friend of my ex. And my love would never want anyone to do that to him. So therefor, He feels like he needs to lead by a half *** example. And by half *** I mean it's been off and on since 2001. Do we stay or go?
2006-09-17 01:56:16 · 14 answers · asked by Mai Ling 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's the thing with guys(at least in my experience) - If they're really into you they treat you with respect. They step up to the plate and say no this is not happening or yes we're in a relationship minus the bullshit.
I don't have the full story but If he's getting sex from you now and/or companionship without the real strings of a relationship then I think you need to set him free to bother someone else. I'm sorry but the excuse of not fully committing to you because he's friends with the ex is BS(i.g. blah blah half whatever), if he respected the friend he wouldn't entertain the idea of messing with your feelings since 2001. Don't allow people to disrespect you like that.
Girlfriend, Let's be honest. According to the population reference bureau - there are millions of economically active men walking this planet. Unless there is a Nuclear Fallout where Mr. Half and Half is one of the only 5 men in the US then I think you should seriously consider him important enough for the question "do we stay or go?". Sorry for the essay, just don't like to see a possibly cool woman stay in a dead end relationship when there are so many good men out there. If you continue with this type of guys you will end up being bitter, you deserve better.
2006-09-17 02:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by ninja_girl_kicking_some_ass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If somebody makes you happy than you should be with them. do not enable all people dictate who you should and should not be with, exceedingly via fact of jealousy. i think of your chum is being fairly petty. yet as you become older you will see that there is so plenty greater human beings like her obtainable. and you will additionally see that something nicely worth having is nicely worth battling for. human beings might say which you're nevertheless youthful and you should enable it circulate. yet going into severe college is the appropriate time to benefit that something nicely worth having is nicely worth battling for. There are unlikely to be fairly some adult males in life that makes you quite happy. So once you hit upon somebody that does, you carry onto it and you cherish it and you're making it final inspite of what all people says or attempt to do.
2016-10-15 02:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move one. Love shouldn't be like that. Its got to be 100%. You've tried and as you said its been on and off. You need a relationship that keeps on going and getting stronger. You probably know that in your head, but you need to feel it in your heart too. Its time to move on. Their is someone else that will put you on a pedestal so go make yourself available.
2006-09-17 02:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by blood_red_mustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are saying that your love would not want his friend to happy? If your loves friend is a friend then he would want your love to be happy. Plus the only problem if any is if your ex still has feelings for you. If you love each other then go for it.
2006-09-17 02:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why curse yourself
do not take on other spirits who attach themself to
others.
It is hard getting rid of what it is you cannot see
Do the right thing sister
have morals and get rid of bad ones
because it does not get any better
if they do not change
2006-09-17 02:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Queen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a moral, that is a personal hang up on his part. Confront him with it, if he balks, take a walk and find someone who can love you for who you are not dis you for who you once went out with.
2006-09-17 02:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a new situation. He is ashamed of you, but wants to keep you waiting in the wings. Move on, you deserve better.
2006-09-17 01:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. Five years is more than enough time to make a decision
2006-09-17 01:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He is not as committed to you as you are to him. After awhile it's to much work and you'll get tired of him anyway.
2006-09-17 02:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's finding excuses to not commit. And his excuse should give you a good enough excuse to break it off with him.
2006-09-17 02:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋