On my bus to go to and from school, there's a guy named Bryan. He's in 8th grade and I'm in 6th. He's 13 and I'm 11. And I think hes really cute and stuff and have been having "thoughts" if you know what i mean... PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2006-09-17 01:30:38 · 17 answers · asked by mp5shooter 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
No stupid answers please.
2006-09-17 01:33:46 · update #1
Read carefully I am not lying to you. You are not gay. You are entering the earliest stage of puberty and at this stage boys begin to notice other boys and wonder what they look like and get really interested in seeing other boys naked, their penises, and scrotum. This curiosity often leads to buddy sessions where older boys show younger boys how to masturbate, play with their penis, and learn about erections and sex. This stage of puberty is often called the "Hero" stage. At this stage boys may become jack off buddies where they masturbate together or even masturbate each other. Boys go through this phase for about 2 years and then get more modest and private and interested in girls. Some boys stay in this phase longer than others and some boys worry about being gay so much that they move themselves out of this phase quickly. You are okay, and you are not gay. Good luck going through puberty and enjoy your developing manhood.
2006-09-17 04:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Geo 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Why do you need help for that? It's too early to tell if you're gay or not because some kids at 11 crush on an older male. (hero worship)..it's not that unusual. But then they grow up to be heterosexual on their own without outside "help." On the other hand, if you are gay...then you shouldn't try to change what you are...
just saying you don't have to tell this kid you're in love or anything like that....just keep those feelings inside...(jerk off if you have to..hahah)...and wait a few years to decide if you're gay.
You really are the only one who can tell for sure if you're gay or not.
Edit: Only telling you not to tell the other kid because if he's not interested in you then you could get into trouble... you never know how a 13 year old will react...just saying "play it safe" for now
2006-09-17 01:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by spindoccc 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude, if you have to ask yourself whether or not you are gay, you probably are. What about girls?? At 11 you should be chasing girls around the playground; not having gay thoughts about some dude on your bus. I would find help, and not on here.
2006-09-17 04:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just about every kid has a sort of crush on their friend or someone they know. Does'nt mean to say you're gay.You probably think he's got some qualities that you'd like to have.At 11 you're too young to have those kind of thoughts. It's probably just a case of hero-worship,wishing you could be more like him
2006-09-17 01:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
theirs a good chance you may be,or you may be bi(go both ways) most 11 years old boy dint look at other boys that way,and you are just reaching puberty, the point where which ever sex is going to excite you, (is starting now). i really hope you haven't been tough to hate gays !just be yourself and if that's the way it turns out ,then that's the way it was meant to be. love yourself first regardless.
2006-09-17 01:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by karen s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you are only 11, just analyze your inner thoughts what you want a girl or a boy....in some other things guys can have a crush on the same sex just like women...but on your end i think or probably you have a tendency of being gay....are you?
2006-09-17 01:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by herno 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u shud reach 8th grade 2 determine.
u may appriciate beuty for that 1 need not b gay
2006-09-17 01:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by discover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st,it's difficult, but seek help from your parents...NOT your 'friends.
Parents will stick with you, and freinds become traitors.
a good counselor is needed...preferably medical.
Remember, YOU make your choices to be happy or miserable.
Don't live in a closet with any decision you've made
2006-09-17 01:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by terry m 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In this world there´s nothing beutifuller than a handsome man, so just enjoy his cuteness !!! do not think what you are!!!
2006-09-17 02:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, your 11, just keep the hell away until ya old enough to understand totally.
2006-09-17 01:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋