i am doin my hotel mangmnt..and am puttin up in a hostel..my grl,shez doin mass comm. we are nt able to meet each other..once or at max twice in a month..mine is a only boys..but itz not dat in her case..so am very insecure...somthngz hav hapnd...dat shattered my trust..i dnt want her 2 talk 2 any1 in the nite cuz itz the only time we are able 2 talk properly..but she refuses to agree to it..am not in contact with any of my frendz..and we are just fitin...although afta al the fightin we *** back to each other...but al dat fightin wont stop...i kno..am scared if 1 day afta al the fightin, if she neva came to me...or if she fallz for some other guy...cuz am not able to giv time to her..and this goin 4 the past 1 n HALF month...we are in this relatnship 4 the past 2 yrs...if our luv is affected so much in such a short period of tme...then wat will hapen in future..n i dnt have any1 exept her..n she knoz that..shez chngd quite a lot..shez becume mre of PRACTICAL nd hv becum mre of emotionl
2006-09-16 23:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by garv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am the 1 who has becum mre of emotional...
2006-09-16 23:37:28 · update #1
she does luv me..but smtimz it i just cant tk it..sometime bak..we fought a alot in the mrnin..we broke..i cald her the same nite but she dint take my cal..she was on cal waitin but neva did she reply..dis cntnued for 3 days.i also msgd msg her.bt no use..afta dis i was heart broken..she cald me afta 3 daz.n i came 2 kno dat she had her time..she enjoyd alot..but now she was missin me..i felt so hurt bt wat cud i do?ther is a guy with whom the coleg relates her alot..n she is also talkin abt him..then smthin hapnd..afta 2 days..she was lyin to me the whole day..i undastud that she was lyin..but dint say anythin..in the eve i askd her wat exktly was she doin the whole day..she strtd yellin at me..then slowly she told me that 1st she went to his place in the mornin,nobody was in the house exept him..then fr a muvee,al alon..nd the reason she gave me for goin to his place was that she wantd to rest..nd then for the cuz she got carried away..iwas cmpletly shattered..cont...
2006-09-17 00:08:37 · update #2
cont..
am not abl to trust her the same..shez changd alot..i alwaz feel that she is lyin to me,or atlest she is hiding thngs from me..i cant share my probs with anyone,i got no 1 to share em..she knoz it all..afta alota discussion..she cald dat guy nd told him dat she aint gonna tlk to him anymre n he agreed,alhthough he was her best frend in the coleg..n ysterday she was in some big problm n she cald HIM..n now she is again frends with him..am alredy very pissed of in life..and that asol came back..everytime we fight,the only solutn shez got is BREK UP..she do come back..but i kno one day
she wont..n then i wud b as gud as dead..i am trapd..she is not contributin towardz me..n she has the same complaint for me..she says that am not trustin her dat she has feelinz only for me n am not undastandin her position..wat can i do.. i kno i ll be dead 1ce shez gone..i ll be all alone..and i cant evn thnk of any1 else..this all chngd wen she strted goin to coleg..
2006-09-17 00:20:02 · update #3
Read you question and pretend it is from someone else, and think how you would answer. I think you need to quit beating yourself up and move on. Its going to be difficult at first but you can do it. You will never meet anyone new while you r making yourself nuts over her.
2006-09-17 01:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were your GF, I wud hv left u LOOOOOOOOOOOONG before. How cud someone toleratye somebody with such horrible English. Anyways, I guess U r a born loser and instead of trying to get your GF back, who it seema has lost all interest in u, ask ur Mom to get a girl for you, give her a good treat in your hotel, spend a night free in one of the hotel rooms and marry the next day. OK? satisfied? Now hand over those 10 points to me.
2006-09-23 00:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by dingdong301070 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gary,
i guess you're too caughtup in your own web and there are only three ppl in your universe, you, her and him. I suggest you step back, to the times when you didn't meet her yet, and see what were you buzy with at that point of time. Am sure, you put too many things on the back burner in the last few months which could be revived - your friends, music and sports etc.
Gary, you gotto redeem yourself and no one else could do that but for you. best wishes,
2006-09-17 02:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if all this is going on then take a step back. You can't tell her what to do cause that will get her mad and she will piss you off out of spite. If your broken up over this then its not worth it. I mean just be a man and get a new girl to date in the same area that you can see more often.
2006-09-16 23:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You certainly are troubled...please consider putting this question in proper English if you want to be taken seriously. I'm not inclined to wade through such a muddy bog of slop.
2006-09-16 23:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get out of this relationship and concentrate on studies... start making new friends and live in the right company.. whats not yours was never yours.. so don't push it hard... al bad things which happens in this world cannot be stopped...so no point worrying.. life is short.. dont waste it.. grow up and enjoy every moment of it
2006-09-24 19:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by scorpiosaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude, if she wants time, give her time, if she really loves you she wont fall for nobody else and she'll alwaus be yours and you dont neeed to worry, if its just attraction then she definately will, theres no way you can stop her from doin that, but just try to show you care and love abt her more often
2006-09-24 00:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Amjad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the best answer to your question, but the problem is that I have not that much time to read your essay.
2006-09-17 01:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by lovingneighbour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience ..my friend !!
2006-09-23 23:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋