when i'm with my friends and there's more than two of us, my friends start ignoring me, i don't think they do it on purpose because i'm quite quiet but i keep getting left behind and stuff because they just forget i'm there! it's annoyin'! they all seem to have this one big group and i'm just not part of it. I no it's not just me because my sister and my parents have noticed as well, please help!
2006-09-16 23:26:42 · 10 answers · asked by NoelandShasta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey....the most important fact is asking them that what's their purpose u have to know that what's their problem with u....and then if u got an answer without reason ignore them and for finding new friends try to find out what other people like more for example:havng good sense of humor,being hip and modern,showin urself a kind smart person......and don't forget be stronge and DON"T GIVE UP i hope u good times take care and bye
2006-09-16 23:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That group sounds more like acquaintances than friends. You shouldn't have to raise your hand or scream to be seen. What "friends" would leave you behind? I have to question whether or not these people really want you around because of your quiet personality. Friends don't leave you or forget you no matter how big the group is. Being a friend doesn't mean you found a friend. Perhaps you should reconsider what's going on and change who you go out with.
2006-09-17 06:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds easy to do, but its not. Be more outspoken. Try to add more to the conversation. Start topics, state funny ideas... just try to make an impression on your friends. Its kinda hard to do, and some people try the whole "attention grabbing" thing but it never works out. I'm sure we're all heard some sort of tale about "the guy who ate the one thing that one time" He just felt left out and tried to get people to notice him, and he got something that'll follow him until he moves. That is what you don't want to happen, just try to connect with people more.
And hey, if you feel left out of a group, try starting a mini conversation or something with someone while the main group still functions.
2006-09-17 06:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rvardell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want ur friends to stop ignoring u, than u would have to be part of the group n not the quiet one in it, u need to start talking n being seen n not be part of the room or the crowd...u would have to be in it, all the way not just part of it so u can be notice...
2006-09-17 06:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by murflaw76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being an Active Participant May help You
2006-09-17 06:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make funny image in front of ur frndz ,naver show ur depressed mood.don't show ur weakness in front of any one untill n unless u r nt sure they r interested to listen the things abt u....make a positive image...which shows u r acheerful l personality....bt at the same time never ignore ur work nnn ....sometimes show urself busy ,so dat dey value u....b confident...remember no one wants to hear the bad n sad things...so b cheerful...n alwz learn n try to give ur self importance.....bt yes don't b rude also...don't b proudy...b soft n change d thinking dat dey r ignoring u ...alwz feel u dn't hv much time...b urself...keep smiling...bbye
2006-09-17 07:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_teddy_world 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if they are ignoring you then there might be any reason for that. try to find out the negative point in you which made them to ignore you. try to change yourself. if they are doing it without any reason then try to make them realise what they are doing with you. if situation changes then good and if no they better find some other friends without hurting these ones.
2006-09-17 06:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. Be a part of the conversation. Try to keep up.
2006-09-17 06:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont get upset.You have to just learn the techniques of attracting your friends.you can attract youfriends towarrads Urselfs.you have to be the centre of crowd.
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2006-09-17 06:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by vinitvs_2599 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them in the same way
2006-09-17 06:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋