night on his web-design,he has just quit heavy drinking..but for the last four years we are not having a sexual realtionship..i am egar..and he is too busy..i feel demoralised by him rejecting me..how do i get him intrested again.
2006-09-16 22:30:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
call me i will show u the way
2006-09-17 00:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Egar
2006-09-17 05:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really necessary for him to work that much. Try to find out why he's spending so much time in his business.
Maybe this is a way to escape from being at home all the time. Or maybe he's encountering some problems with his job.
Try to communicate with him and express your feelings & look for the cause
2006-09-17 06:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Meemee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's 100% into work and trying to make a good life for you, but in th einterim has took his eye off you. Not easy to get back in the groove, but sit down and talk. Seduce him or do what you did when you first met.
2006-09-17 09:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Platinum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never any middle ground is there ? if he was unemployed and pestering you for sex 10 times a day would you be happy? He may be impotent or have ED and too embarrassed to admit it. Its all about communication and talking to each other - you just have to chat it out, maybe easier for him in bed with the light out if he has trouble talking to you. Good luck
2006-09-17 06:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow there are so many questions within that question really. It could be that he is channeling all his energy into making sure the business is a success that everything else gets blocked out. As for getting him interested in the physical side again................have you tried something as simple as telling him how you are feeling? I know it sounds obvious but sometimes we miss the obvious don't we.
2006-09-17 05:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by stevoledevo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about what you are going through.
Bear in mind that he is probably trying to succeed in order to give his family a better lifestyle.
Short term pain for long term gain.
Try to show support and encouragement, be there for him, and remind him of why he chose you in the first place.
2006-09-17 05:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to here tht its really very sad.
When he reach home or when he was working switch off the light and go in front of him Nacked holding a candel. rest you what to do next ****
Good Luck
2006-09-17 08:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ninno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me he will b stressed, dont tell him u want it (ita b another thing on the list 'to do'), try 2 make him relax & wait 4 his mind 2 realise he wants it.
2006-09-17 05:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have to find out whether he got any other source to sex. May be he is impotent. You try to advance to him. Try some ways to attract his attention. Finally masterbate if all fails.
2006-09-17 08:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Gopal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce - enjoy life, leave him to his work and get on with having a wonderful life with someone who wants you.
2006-09-17 05:35:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋