2006-09-16 22:30:16 · 11 answers · asked by Orange 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hang in there. When you least think about, that right woman will meet ya! I met my Future Husband, over six years ago, and he is 8 years older than me, and I thought I was going to meet all these geeks (I just got divorced from a man that didn't want to take care of children, as I was pregnant with our son! So, he asked, he didn't want any help. I left. Had our son, I decided to not date, til my son was 2, and I had my own place, and a great job, and after dating a lot of toads, I finally found my prince!
I think it is the same thing in the "mans" world, you got to kiss a lot of "Witches" to get your Princess! And you will! The funny thing to me, was that when I me my fiancee, now, my Ex wanted me back, begged for me to my friends, and even though, I was on my own, single mom, working hard, with a great guy, it was nice to have the table turn to say NO! You missed out! I wasn't going to go out with someone, just because he became a father. First, anyone can make a child, but it takes a lot of hard work to become a REAL DAD, as my Fiancee is more a Dad (My son is now 10, and considers him his father, as he was young, when I had him meet him. Plus, he told me and his own Father, that he was just a friend and just wanted to have friends.
But, that woman is out there! I found my man, from Yahoo Personals (years ago, when it was free, lol) and I placed a great AD, was honest, about having a child, and only the serious reply. There are lots of women, that want a man that is ready to settle down. SAY IT! Put it out there. But, don't just marry the first girl you fall over heals, wait a year, as in that year, you go through all the holidays, birthdays, seasons, etc. Then you can see if you can make it through them. It is important to know you are in love with this woman, heart, soul, and also life! You want to get a long with each others families, like the same sporting events (or able to enjoy each others companies. plus sports run all different times of the year) etc.
I know I am rambling, but as a Woman, who was looking for a man to settle down and have fun and have a lot in common, and I did find him, as he answered my Ad, and now he is my Pooh Bear, and I am his Hunny! And ONE day, your Hunny will be right there!
Lots of luck and Hope! There are women out there, waiting for you and your company! Believe me, just try to meet them, either online dating group (I think you get to talk more and say things, by typing than at a bar) or through friends, family, and even other girlfriends! As, I dated one man, that set me up on a date,with a great man, but he reminded me of my bf's husband, lol! Just couldn't do it! I felt like I was cheating on her! LOL!
But, at a bar, to me, is not a great place to look for a woman. But, great place to go with your date and friends, as then she can bring her friends and you bring your single friends, and who knows, might get another match! I did it, but it is funny now, but my gf and I laugh, as this guy I dated, bf, was so silly, as nerdy, never had sneakers, or a T shirt! We thought it was strange, but that was our opinion. OK, had to share, to give you a chuckle, now! :-)
2006-09-16 22:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jersey Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are a lot of people in this world and it takes time to find that special person.
I believe in Gods' timing; that He is molding me and my special guy into the people we need to become in order to share our lives together.
Keep an open mind, be patient and don't settle for anything less than the best. Good luck! :)
2006-09-17 05:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by justjerra_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in truth, love has being come just a word, very few people belief in it anymore, some of the reason why, is that the social order of things has change, where people do not care, but only in them self, with all the problem that we have in relationship today, people are scare of being in one, and to believe in the other person, it would take a lot of time and trust, for it to work..
2006-09-17 05:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by murflaw76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is not time yet for you to be seriously attached.
So go on and enjoy your life with as many friends as possible without being committed to any long term relationships. You will be much happier and healthier in your life.
When the time comes, you will have no more doubts, if you decide on this path.
2006-09-17 05:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think cause... well, think about it.
if its that easy, then there will be nothing to look for in life.
its hard because you want to get to close to something so far and that makes life a little more fun, i guess.
its one of those goals you gotta accomplish.
and dont worry, everyone has somebody.
a person will love you in soon time, or they might already do!
2006-09-17 05:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because every one is very different and complex and not always 100 % monogamous. In every relationship one person is always the cat and the other the dog, if you see what I mean.
2006-09-17 05:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to wait until the right one comes along.
2006-09-17 05:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by FL Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause this world is not fair the people we love are always the ones to hurt us
2006-09-17 05:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by LIBERIAN MAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep your head up and keep living! to find the one for you sometimes takes time. but it is well worth the wait! and dont you ever settle for less!
2006-09-17 05:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flaws. Some people are more willing to accept them better then others.
2006-09-17 05:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by TYRONE S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋