I dont want to be mean about it I care about our friendship but I bought my home and she was driving a long commute she dosent really do anything to help me out I feel like im being taken advantage of someone help me tell this girl she needs to get the hell out!!!!
2006-09-16 21:30:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Looks like you did your part in helping her when she was going through hardships, now that she's back on her feet just tell her that its time for her to continue her advancement by getting her own place.
2006-09-20 18:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! you have over-worked your mind thinking about an easy and obvious solution. Tell her confidently you will be making a new plan and in 60 days those plans do not include her as you need like way more money to pay off some debt. You own your home she is in no way obligated to help you around the house. If she pays no rent she is a house guest. If she pays rent then she has to take care of her area. If you have some idea in your head she should be doing this or that and you think it is obviousm IT IS NOT! People in general rarely have time to think beyond there inner space. That line about she does not really help you sounds like you asked someone already advice and someone gave you negative advice which is unfortuneatley human nature.
2006-09-17 04:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by laxthefacts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question.Tell her you know times were hard for her,but now,you rather live by yourself.(if you do)
Tell her it's that you would have liked it if she coud've helped you out more around the house.And say you want your privacy so you want to live alone.(I mean it's a new house!i wouldn't strangers pigging my house but me!)
Or,you can do the same things she does,except,in her room.(Since it's your house,you wouldnt want to pig up your own house!lol.)Throw dirty clothes into her room,leave the dishes unwashed for awhile,act lazy and wait until she gives in and tells you you need to be a bit more tidy or she just says she's moving out.Then,clean up,and celebrate!Yee-peee!!!!I'll be at the part-ay gurl!!!!!What kind of streamers should I bring........
2006-09-17 04:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by love me for me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends help out hun. i got a best friend but she dont live with my and she stays alot and she helps with dishes, clothes and things like that.. she needs to get **** done if she ants to live there and atleast pay half the bills. what are people thinking these days we live for free........????????????????
2006-09-17 04:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will use you only as long as you allow her too...speak your mind, if she gets mad she really isn't your friend....
2006-09-17 04:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋