how do i tell my parents im pregnant?As a teen...?

Question

i just recently found oit i was pregnant,im at a very young age so im afraid to ask my parents because i fear their going to hate me because im doing well in school and they have high expectations from me,,,,so how do i tell them because i don't wantt o hurt them,and what should i do about the baby?

Answer 1

Have the baby tell them you are a tart and get on with life SIMPLE

Answer 2

Well, the damage is done and you cant do much about it now. The best thing is to confide everything in your parents (tell your mom first, if you can't say it to both off them together) and ask for their forgiveness. Since you are too young as you say, they would be better able to decide on the future course. Though abortion is not a wise idea, if you are unable to take care of the baby, it can be considered. Else you can give birth and give away the baby for adoption. Just be strong and take this as a phase that will change soon. Don't delay. Go to your parents now.

Answer 3

Do you really want to keep the baby? Babies are really hard work and if you are always going to resent it because it ruined your chances of having a good education, then I think the answer should be no. Is the father going to be involved?
What ever your decision is, you need to tell your parents. Do you feel more comfortable talking to your mum? I would maybe tell her and let her tell your dad when you are not there.
If you want this baby, they can't make you get rid of it, you are the only one who can decide that, but think really hard about it and don't leave it too late. Tell your parents as sson as you can, normally when you are really woried about something, it normally turns out ok. Stress is not good for the baby.

Answer 4

Well it,s done now the sooner you tell them the better i got prenant in my later teens and my parents were mad at first but they supported me now i have a wonderfull 11yr ol son who has 2 younger syblings and very loveing grandparents. Its going to be hard but at the end of the day your there child and as you,ll find out after haveing this baby you,ll support your children no matter what. Good luck to you and all the best for the future and remember your not the first young person to get pregnant and you won,t be the last.

Answer 5

For 1 I hope you stay in school. U can go to school and have a baby and thats what the daycares are for. Don't drop out whatever you go because you will need that education with a baby. I think you should tell them, they wont hate u and i hear most teens say my mom and dad are going to kill me. they wont do that either. They might cry and tell u a baby needs alot of love. Im sure you can love the baby. But just tell them its best for you and baby because u need prenatal care. I wish you the best with your baby. I had a baby at 19 and the worlds hardest job is to be a mom. i am 21 now my son is 3 and i am 16 weeks pregnant. i wish you the luck and if u need to talk u can email me [e-mail].,............GoodLuck

Answer 6

Okay, I'll say the "adult" thing first. If you're old enough to have sex, then you're old enough to not be afraid to tell your parents. Okay, now that that's done...It's like they say "the truth will set you free." Just tell them asap. They'll find out eventually so just go ahead and get it over with. You might be surprised at their reaction. No parent is going to be happy when their teenage daughter tells them that she's pregnant. But they have 9 months to get used to it. When they see thier grandchild, they will likely be over any anger they had anyway. You need to tell them because you'll need regular doctor appointments which I don't think you can go to on your own. As for what to do about the baby, that's what you need to talk to your parents about. Will they help you raise it? Do you even want to keep it? I'm not advocating abortion, but you do have that option. Otherwise, there's adoption if you don't want to keep the baby. That's all stuff that you and your parents need to talk about. Your parents are not going to hate you. They may be disappointed in you at first, but that will pass.

Answer 7

Sugar, if I knew how old you were this question would be easier to answer. Your parents and family will love you no matter what. Maybe if you have an aunt, cousin, or grandparent that your close to you could tell them before you tell your parents. I think you should keep your baby and raise it. You always hear about young unwed mothers, but I'm only 19 (and even though I've never been pregnant) and I think people make it out to be something awful, like it's going to ruin your life. I graduated with girls who now have babies and their just as happy as they were before they had a child GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

go to a center, where you get help, advice and information what you can do as a teen.
is there someone in your school, a guidance chanslor or sth? ask him or her then where some centers are for help. go to a doctor, ask her what can you do ?? when you are teen and become pregnant, it is better off be adviced what to do, and then they, or you can tell your parents. if you are in the beginning, maybe you can drop the child, because it is not illegal, if it is in the first pregnancy week. you are a teen, you are a kid, should have finish school and go to college, it is an unwanted baby, because you didnot plan to have it. how will you support him? how will you earn money to make a living for him? the guy will just vanish, and you are on your own. have you never had sexualteaching in biology class? why didnot you make yourself sure how to practice safer sex and avoid an unwanted pregnancy through using condoms or pills, this makes me think you are very young, and you donot know how to protect yourself... and this means you are not ready at all for sex,, it always makes me mad how someone has sex, without thinking how to make sure that it is safe and not to get an unwanted baby.

Answer 9

Talk to your parents they love you and will help you. There are options out there. Adoption, or they can help you to raise the baby. I know it's seems so hard to do and I won't lie they might get mad, but they love you and will not abandon you. they would want to know. They are going to find out anyways as you know the body gets bigger and puts on a lot more weight during pregnancy. Just tell them that you need to sit down and talk to them about something important. Then tell them the truth and ask them for help. I hope this advice helps. Above all, stay in school. Best of luck to you and yours.

Answer 10

I had my son at 20 and was very worried about telling my parents, I just blurted it out one evening when they were watching TV . " well mum and dad your going to have another member of the family at the christmas table this year". I might of been a little older then you are but it was not any easier, think about what you want to do before you tell them as they may try to make your mind up for you. This is going to change your life for ever not only in negative ways sure it will take time to get used to but there are lots of positive things in motherhood.Just tell them asap the longer it takes the worse your gonna feel, but be sure on your decision first.They wont hate you. What do you think parents are for? I wish you good luck

Answer 11

You need to tell them so you get the proper medical care, you could hemorrhage and die, you could have an ectopic pregnancy and get very ill. If I were you I would rather get into trouble than die or get ill. Being in trouble is only temporary!!!They will be very upset as expected at first however they are not going to hurt their pregnant baby girl. They are going to find away to contact the guy and his parents and things could get messy. I suggest you and the guy who got you pregnant brace yourselves. If you did not use protection that is careless, you can get AIDS and die. If you did well that does not make you stupid or careless because birth control is not 100% effective even when used properly. Good Luck.