all my friends have boyfriends and i do not i feel left out but all the guys who ask me out at school send one of there friends to ask me add i do not want to go out with them because there not brave enough toask me out them selfs so i ture them down do u think i should lower my secomstanseas
2006-09-16 20:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by shayline 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Young guys aren't going to want to put themselves out there for rejection. If you think you like the guy, I don't see why you should turn him down simply because he sent his friend to ask. While lame, he's still trying to make the first move.
2006-09-17 03:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your doing the right thing if they really like you then they will come and ask your them self's.Stand your ground just because your friends all have boyfriends it don't mean you have to be like them you have to be your self first. I know and understand your feeling left out but that is all part of growing up
2006-09-17 03:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, i can understand why you may feel left up about the whole not having a bf thing. but u shouldnt have to feel that way. relationships can be some work. your not only thinking of your self and how to make you feel happy but being able to also keep someone you love happy too. only confront the guys if you really want a boyfriend. otherwise maybe its best to wait for that very special guy who is gona ask you out himself. goodluck honey!
2006-09-17 03:30:34 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell there friends to tell them that if the really wanna go out with u then they should ask u there selfs n then see how that goes ive done that a couple of times n it worked 4 me they talked to me their self so yeah welp i hope i answered ur question
2006-09-17 03:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by ShOrTaY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest getting to know them by asking them how old they are,what kind of girls do they etc.
Girlie,I know how you feel,most guys do that,especially right know that they are immature,but hey,lets face it,are'nt we immmature to right now?!lol...I know I am.
2006-09-17 03:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by love me for me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if they send a friend they might be scared of rejection so juss say yea!
2006-09-17 11:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by tonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to your own ways you will come out better for it good luck
2006-09-17 10:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by liz r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to them and find out if theyre worth dating.
2006-09-17 03:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by Richardicus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋