we have been best frnds 4 more than 2 yrs.i felt that he was going to ask me.we used to share everything sohe told me lately that he has a girlfrnd n he is in love with her.he told me that 2 weeks after he proposed her n she said yes.what shall i do ????
2006-09-16 20:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by imsimplygr8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a hard one!! tell him how you feel, but before you do think are your feeling real?? or are u just scared you might be losing your best friend??? good luck
2006-09-16 20:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by jookie70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is hard but just be happy for them.. after what has happened, i think this is not the right time for the both of you to be more than just frnds, or maybe there is NO right time.. accept the fact that what he feels for you is for a best frnd, nothng more.. i had faced a situation that is somewhat similar to the one that you are in and i know what to do.. move on, you dserve someone better..
2006-09-16 20:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Carte Blanche 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your friend or not? Does your question mean stop being his friend? Certainly you are not suggesting that you do or say anything about you and him...that would just show no class at all. A true friend would be happy for him and wish him much happiness and success.
Here's a quote for you. "Don't do anything to someone that you wouldn't want done to yourself".
2006-09-16 20:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything.. move on with your life and continue the good frienship you always had. If he becomes single again someday and you are also single then tell him how you feel , but unless all that goes down.. just leave it alone!
2006-09-16 20:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by minx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has a girlfriend then just leave them alone..dont interfere with their relationship and ruin it for the girl..that would be wrong..think of urself in her place..wud u want ur bf's best friend ruining ur rel...i dont think so...there r many guys out there..u can FOR SURE find another guy ur gona like...once again leave em alone
2006-09-16 20:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by sneha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think people who have been friends multiple years ever suddenly get together? Not very often. It just wasn't meant to be.
2006-09-16 20:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad that you have a terrific best friend and stop trying to make him into something more.
2006-09-16 20:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything...Face the facts that he belongs to someone else--leave well enough alone.
2006-09-16 20:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on! find another guy and this one - b his best fr till the end!
2006-09-16 20:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the wedding and eat heartedly
2006-09-16 20:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by bama_cid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋