2006-09-16 19:39:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl hell no, u and ur man get a place and your parents should already have a place.
2006-09-16 19:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Egypt S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No. No because it isnt gonna make your relationship stronger. Just because your privacy is gonna go way down. But, it your parents need a place to stay, you need to make room, and do the best you can. They are your parents, they brought you into the world, they raised you for years. You own them, and always will owe them. If there assholes, thats another story. But if there loving and caring parents, then you have no choice. Especially if it is a boyfriend and not a husband. Make all the room you can for your parents, and deal with it as best as possible. Then try to help them eventually get a place of there own or whatever the situation, helps them with it until its resolved. Bros before Hos. Parents before everything else. Oh and Imma edit this, dont listen to the stupid ***** above. There ******* retarded and have absolutely no respect for what there parents have done for them. Like I said if your parents r assholes, one story. But I know not all of these people parents r assholes, they need to grow up, and ******* return the favor. Think about all your parents have done for you, and what little they are asking. NO ******* BOYFRIEND IS WORTH YOUR PARENTS. Never Ever Ever choose someone before your parents. Just do your best to accomodate them both. And if one of them want someone to leave, then they are the ones that need to leave. For reals.
2006-09-17 02:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cody B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your parents living with you, you will fall back into that role of parent child. YOur parents will be trying to treat you like a kid again and start telling you what to do in your own place and how to live your life. YOu have to nip that in the bud real quick or they will completely take over your life. They may try the same thing with your boyfriend. If you and your boyfriend get into arguments or something then your parents will always try to jump in and tell you to leave him or kick him out. Or you and your mom may gang up on your boyriend. Your boyfriend may leave you because he can't handle your parents living with you, etc. It will be tough and your sex life is going to go down the tubes. There will be lots of stress. But if your parents have no place else to go at least you will know they are safe with you and you can help them out. Are they moving in because of old age?
Many people let their elderly parents move in and find out they can't handle it and end up having them go to an old age home or assisted living home. That is an option if you absolutely can't handle having them live with you.
If it is something temporary then at least you know it won't be for a very long time. But be prepared for lots to change and having your parents treating you like a teenager again. The parent child role comes back bigtime when you live in the same house as your parents. No matter what age you are.
2006-09-17 02:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Trevor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you?? If this is a mature relationship and the parents need medical and will help foot the bills Y?N if they don't it all sounds to crucial in a way but if in the north or so and land & that too are crucial I might see it or your natallity has this sort of acceptance then you deciede "Ok"
2006-09-17 02:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say bad news, is that what you really want. I think that will take time away from your relationship. I suggest you rethink that. I would be okay for a short time, but maybe burden the relationship over the span of time.
2006-09-17 02:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's much better than you moving in with them!! Other wise i'd say it depends on your relationship with them. Can you be as comfortable with them there as without them there?? if so I say no problem but if your answer is no them you will be miserable!! hope you make the right choice! Me personally i would hate it !!
2006-09-17 02:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your mom doing your boyfriend and then all of you going on the jerry springer show to talk about it then i say yes
2006-09-17 02:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the effing dumbest idea I've ever ****** heard of. You're an idiot.
2006-09-17 02:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope but if they need you help then you gotta help em your boyfriend might feel over crowded and invaded on his privacy, but if he loves you he will understand
2006-09-17 02:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if theres good insulation in the walls to your bedroom
2006-09-17 02:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋