2006-09-16 19:16:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're gunning for babies... don't take that the wrong way... go ahead and do it! If you love him, it is a good thing!
2006-09-16 19:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by minstrel_of_munificence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not suppose to be that way Home girl. If you thinking it will eventually lead to marriage then you got so much in store for your self. Think educatedly before making life changing decisions. I know your smarter than that other wise you wouldn't have asked the question in the first place right or wrong. I have a girlfriend of 7 years and she wants to move in to start a family but I'm not ready for any kids at the age of 24. Talk to God tonight sweety.
2006-09-16 19:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tigger-Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this really does depend ont he strength of ur relationship, i did exactly that 3 years ago. Our relationship is one that has alot of strength in it. Ok we have our arguments like any other couple, but its important to seperate the 2. 1st move in with him, make sure ur both happy with each other and thier company b4 embarking on starting a familly. We now have to gorgoeus lil girls yet have not married as yet. The only thing that i would advise against is to having kids to strengthen ur relationship....although kids can beign u closer together they can also produce stress that can drive u apart. In short move in with him, wait a while b4 starting a familly and take it from there. good luck
2006-09-16 19:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only NO but HELL NO, what the hell are you thinking, go to college, get a good life for yourself, you can't love a baby until you love yourself and it sounds like your just looking for love, honey, please do not do this, it will make you resent the children and him once you have all these "babies", because there is so much life you have not lived yet. Shoulders back, head up and stand tall, be proud of yourself and see how much you have to learn and offer this world.
2006-09-16 19:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by tonyak1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. get married. then live together and have children. you can't just think about yourselves. when you have children, you're impacting their lives for FOREVER. what will they do when you and your boyfriend break up (yes it could happen) if you're not ready to get married and settle down and show some commitment to this guy, don't produce children with him. I've watched tons of people take this road and it only ends in misery. if you won't not do it to help yourself . . . at least do it for the kids.
2006-09-16 19:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea at all. if you move in with him, just keep it at that, don't rush the baby thing in case you realize you don't or can't get along. you may find you don't really like him after living together.
2006-09-16 19:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Skypride 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Are you and him ready to take the relationship to the next level? A baby will change the whole dynamic of your relationship together.
2006-09-16 19:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is guarantee whether you are married or boyfriend and girlfriend. You have to make the choice yourself. Weigh the pros and cons.
2006-09-16 19:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you ask on this forum ,I don't think it is because if you were committed and in love and responsible enough to have baby's then you wouldn't be asking us ,you would know.
2006-09-16 19:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age...your occupations...your mentality and both of your levels of responsibility...
2006-09-16 19:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋