2006-09-16 19:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by azza 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
women are more coniving and less trustworthy so if you dont have faith in yourself you wont have faith in anyone else especially a guy
2006-09-16 19:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Paul L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can trust a man in a relationship first you gotta make him trust you... Even those guys who act all macho and super stud are sensitive but they are too afraid to put their trust on a girl because they never wanna get heart broken or feel gloated if something goes wrong with the relationship.... If you can convince him that you are loyal, without being so desperate and yeah, butt-giving, you can earn his trust... We like smart girls and tend to respect them... It's a false belief that girls can't trust a guy.... Girls can make a guy a stoner or a romeo no matter what kinda guy he is...The thing is, most of the women have this feeling that they can't trust a man even when they start a new relationship... Guys hate it when girls act paranoid... Be your self all the time and don't pretend to be someone else that you are not.. Be genuine and if he still leaves you, then he's not the right person...
2006-09-17 02:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Teejay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 Learn to spell. "MAN" is singular (one person) "MEN" is plural (more than one) You can learn how to trust a man or to trust men.
#2 Learn that in the area of trust, men are just like women: Neither gender can be, AS A WHOLE, completely trusted. If someone whom you have trusted, demonstrates that s/he cannot be, you are at fault ONLY if you place the same level of trust in that same individual a second or successive times. It is an unfortunate fact of life that you cannot know the level of another person's trustworthiness until you have placed trust in them, and they have responded. Therefore, if you have trusted a man, and that man has demonstrated his deficiencies in this area, it does not necessarily mean that you are at fault and that you cannot trust the next man with whom you come in contact. Trust a new acquaintance first in small matters, and gauge their responses. Then decide if a greater level of trust can be risked. If you place trust in someone, and they demonstrate their immaturity by showing you that you should not trust them, you have not necessarily done something stupid. Learn from it, and move on.
2006-09-17 05:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is something so hard to earn and keep. you have to initially get to know a person. you don't have to trust a man immediately in a relationship, and nor does he have to.
remember ... trust is gained......
you have to spend a lot of time with each other, get to know one another well.... and start feeling secure.... and you will know when he reciprocates the same feelings that you show him....
girls tend to trust more if a man respects her and all women, if he is a little sensitive to her feelings and not laugh at her insecurities, and most importantly if he does not take advantage of her. Like how you trust some of your guy friends(not boy friend)...
its the same way for a guy too...like someone mentioned... should not be desperate and clingy... possessive... u need to give him a lot of space.... and take it from there....
as long as u are comfortable in each others company then its a positive sign.... u have to first be secure urself.... confident...etc.... if ur not and then ur looking for a guy to feel secure ... its hard to end up trusting him... as not all men like have the patience to understand the woman's insecurities initially in a relationship.....
so if ur secure and confident... its a mutual thing.... what u expect from a guy to trust him would more or less be the same thing as what he expects from you!!
2006-09-17 02:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by CapriciousMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust "a" man? Or Trust "men"? Or trust mankind at large? Why just men?
Then again, why should you "trust"? If you trust completely, you give up yourself... to another human being. Yet, remember "to err is human". No, there is no trust to have or not to have. There is only one thing that counts: love yourself, love others, but protect yourself at all times, in all situations: PROTECTION is the key.
2006-09-17 02:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by marysylvie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's easy, and it's never easy to fully trust some one or any one when you feel insecure. Maybe the first thing to do is to feel secure about your relationship, then can you come to trust him bit by bit. If he loves you, I mean 100% loves you, then he'll make you feel 100% secure about him and your relationship. He'll also be very patient with you or your sense of insecurity. Good luck.
2006-09-17 02:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by danielle s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust them, don't have a relationship. You need to work out your personal issues first or the relationship will fail.
2006-09-17 02:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by xtowgrunt 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't trust a man 100%, don't even trust yourself 100%, we should have doubts on everyone around us even our ownselves.
it's not really in a negative way but it's just as a safety procedure (sorry with the manly terms! LOL!)..... it's better to be prepared for the worst!
2006-09-17 02:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by immortality1983 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a very broad question, and you seem to be generalizing. The best way I can answer this is by saying that, You need to make yourself aware on what qualities make a person trustworthy or not trustworthy, and use your best judgement.
2006-09-17 02:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Clark Kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to trust them. Remember trust is something that is earned. If someone is showing signs of lack of integrity save yourself some heartache and leave.
2006-09-17 02:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no why to know if anyone is trustworthy or not. The only thing any one can do is hope that they are and believe it until you find out otherwise.
2006-09-17 02:18:17 · answer #11 · answered by robert d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋