My husband keeps trying to do something new, he's tried pro football, going to the service, the latest - to be a police officer. None of these attempts have been successful. I've been trying to be supportive but he tries something new every 2 -3 months. Almost makes me feel as though we (me and our unborn child) are not enough for him. his current job pays very well, but he says he just wants something different. Psycologically why does he try so many different things in less than a year when focusing on our family would be more helpful and put the household at ease?
2006-09-16 18:57:46 · 8 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
well every one has their own goals and ways f thinking , i think that your husband doesnt feel secure about himself i think that you should talk to him or try to get him some help he needs it and make him realize how important you two are.
2006-09-16 19:13:03 · answer #1 · answered by Neefs Portillo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is trying to find his self. He May want a lot more for his family. May be that,s his heart,s desire. Have you talked to him about it. He may not be satisfied with the job he at presently even tho the pay is good he feels he needs more for his family . At least he is trying . Talk to him if it bothers you . communication is so important in a marriage . I pray that you,ll be blessed in a way that you will all be happy.
2006-09-17 02:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by boodababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just trying to come to terms with the fact he's going to be a father. (first time?) He's trying to make things better. Let him do what he has to do. Don't agrue with him, he wants the best for all of you, obviously. Maybe he's just trying to find his niche. Any number of reasons he's doing what he's doing. Men have their thing just as we go thru ours.
Congratulations to you both & take care. (maybe he's worried & trying to think of helping you with the baby & all, just not saying it. Go easy on him-apparently the man has some talent. It's not easy doing the jobs he's trying out for.)
2006-09-17 02:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by hey you 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know someone like that... maybe he hasn't completely come to terms with the fact that you guys are going to have a baby. He might just need something to settle his worries, take his mind off the stress of having a baby...
2006-09-17 02:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't found his calling - not sure he ever will. Or, maybe he wants to distract himself from a deeper underlying issue he needs to address.
2006-09-17 03:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might feel useful or maybe he is scared like maybe he thinks that what he is doing rite now is not going to impress the new baby maybe he feels he needs to do something that he thinks will impress his child to give him sumthin to brag about
2006-09-17 02:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by moca frost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels like he aint doing enough for you two..
2006-09-17 01:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever it is youre feeling. its probably right. your husband doesn't want to be there.
2006-09-17 02:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋