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I have so much of possessive and shyness nature, I want to getrid of them, How can I?

2006-09-16 18:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by ramnadh k 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Just start wearing your underwear on the OUTSIDE of your clothes. That is all you need to do.

Please award Best Answer points to me right now because I deserve them, as you can now plainly see and must agree. I do not want to wait because I am not at all patient with you.

2006-09-16 18:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 3

It depends on how old you are to a point. For me going to college really helped me grow up in some ways. I had some anxiety issues and shyness growing up. I was homeschooled so the social scene was a big adjustment for me but I made it. It's funny because I actually do things now that I would never have done years ago. Like call someone I don't even know, but knows my boyfriend and talk to them for the first time and ask if they need a roommate. So it's kind of cool. Because you feel like a whole new person. Really the best advice I can say is take it each day at a time. Each time you feel shy about something or get scared, just decide to ignore the fear and do it anyway. Depending on what it is. Like if you are in a crowd just find someone who seems approachable and say hi. Try to carry a conversation. Or just get the courage to do something that is a little bit out of your normal comfort zone. And it will not seem as much of a big deal. Put yourself in more situations where you can be more extroverted. if you are at home a lot or with people you know you will be less likely to force yourself to do something out of the ordinary. Good Luck!

2006-09-16 18:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0 1

If you are naturally an introvert, you will always have some of those shy qualities. However, there are ways to come out of your shell. Find a new hobby that you love and you will soon have a ton of confidence and new friends. Take a public-speaking course at your local community college/resource center. Finding my passion, friends who 'have my back', and skills to voice my opinions made me, an introvert, come out of my shell significantly. Good luck.

2006-09-16 18:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 1 0

1) joint some personality development classes

2) if you r shy, i think u r thinking a lot on your negative points, just stop it.! everybody have it u r not a odd one out in this world.

3) if u know that u r introvert than u also know that where u feel hesitate to go, try to do that thing in a small way. HOW??

if u feel shy talking in public place than try to communicate with ur friends, teacher, relatives in a friendly way. and don't think u will do or say something wrong. it will help u

i have to say something to u dear always remember * if we think negatively than it effect us negatively. if we think positively it effect positively.

so, best of luck!!

i know u will do it !!!!

2006-09-16 19:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by priya 3 · 0 0

I tend to be really shy myself, even if I want to talk I can't think of anything to say.

I really don't think you can actually CHANGE but you can make it so other people won't notice it.

Practise just smiling at everybody, and start making comments when people talk. Say 'hi _______' to people you know, and eventually I think it will be easier to think of things to say.

I know its hard for me to think of stuff to say, so I just start talking random, for example...

(Walking into work) Oh my goodness!! Its raining cats and dogs out there!

or say

Dennen, don't you think that guy over there is HOT?

just try to think of something to say, then say it...to others it probably sounds normal, even though you think you sound...nervous

2006-09-16 18:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by wyomingirlie16 3 · 1 0

There are a few ways to go about it really... depends who you are and all that.
I suggest:
try to get out more... hang with friends and go places.
Possessive? Explain...
You really need to hang with people more get to know you... and it's going to take a while... work at it and good luck.
I wish you best.

2006-09-16 18:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Junas 2 · 0 1

Sorry to say,you can't!

2006-09-16 18:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0 1

well.......expose yourself to the field you like the most..........excel in it......be cofident.

2006-09-16 18:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by preetam hegde 2 · 0 0

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