i am in a long distance relationship and i live in cali and my bf lives in pennsylvania ....he wants me to move there with him and i don't want to b/c i have a life here and i don't want to start a new life where i don't know the place that well and i asked him reasons why i should move there instead of him and all he told me that i can meet his parents and he can show me the place that i could go to school and where to live and all and i was like wtf why cant he move to cali instead and do the same thing viva versa all i can think of is school , family, and home that's all what other reason that he won't tell me so any sugguestions why he wants to stay in PA than come to cali
2006-09-16 18:22:01 · 4 answers · asked by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What does you bf do in Pennsylvania that he can't do in Cali ?Same question to you. If you are going to be in a relationship,it's a give an take thing.
If you aren't willing to compromise ,then you don't have a very strong relationship.
2006-09-16 18:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably for the same reasons why you want to stay. You have a stable existance in California, and he has stable existance in Pennsylvania. Moving would make things very unstable for him.
...Considering neither of you want to make the leap, i don't see this relationship going very far.
2006-09-16 18:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This battle of the no bulls sounds like a no-win and will probably suffer a slow burn-out completely, better for all concerned. Sorry, but that's how I see it.
2006-09-16 18:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to follow what your heart is telling you. I'm in the same situation. I have decided to stay here at home. I will reevaluate it in a year and see what my heart says then.
2006-09-16 18:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by nys1616 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋