why am i like this???

Question

hi people! i always seem to be goofing up...wether its parking my car or doing business or talking to people. i am an interior decorator by profession and sometimes i unintenionally manage to misdirect my clients and then they throw me out of job ( i try to put forward an idea and somehow i give them a completely different view about it )and i also get confused fast..what do i do??

Answer 1

Well maybe a part of it is just your personality, and there is definitely nothing wrong with that.

However, when it comes to your job as an interior designer you have to find a way to be able to in-vision your work, help your clients see that vision, and be able to execute that vision. You can't afford to be confused, I mean if you the designer is confused, that doesn't leave your client in a very good position, does it?

You said you were having trouble making the clients see exactly what you are trying to create before hand. Why not have little samples of paint colours, fabrics, and drawings. Showing them something that is visually stimulating may help your idea come across much better.

Answer 2

It sounds to my like you are having a problem with concentration and lack focus. Once you get these two things under control things should start to turn around. I'm not sure who you would talk to about it. I guess, you could always check with a therapist or you could see if there are any self-help books on the subject.

It also helps to have a plan going in. If you don't have any plan or any ideas going in then that could be why you get confused. Also, it doesn't hurt to take notes.

It's more professional to take notes and stay organized than to not take notes and end up lost and confused.

Answer 3

welcome to jobs 101, you would have to be some what educated to be a interior decorator, so i don't think it not a mind thing for you. I have own my own painting business and i can tell you from experience that people like to think they have it all figured out, I think you will find that if you can get their ideas out from the get-go then add your training you will find that they are all not that crazy and can be lead into a sell where you are in control but they feel they have been from the get-go, after all we are servicing their needs

Answer 4

talking about different view is an exceptional thing and fine but you have to have a very strong passion and conviction that the outcome is going to be excellent. confussion is another issue that you have to take seriou because it in not good for you personally and for your bussiness either so i will encourage you to read books on leadership, motivations, inspirationsand sales at least 2books on each topic i bet you will be refresh and you be able to manage your confussion

Answer 5

Consider taking a communications class or something of the sort. In your profession, you can't afford to not be a people person.

Answer 6

Take some pills for ADD.

Answer 7

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