How do you handle it..the anger..it was NOT her fault!
2006-09-16 17:59:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I haven't, but I have a friend who lost a friend in a car accident. And this person who died was entirely not responsible for it. I think the best way to handle this and every thing that does not depend on you, is trying to think of something else. I know it's hard, but I guess that's the only way...
2006-09-16 18:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Over the years, I've lost a grandmother and uncle to a drunk driver, a cousin to a hit and run, and most recently a nephew to a careless driver who pulled right out in front of him. It is hard to handle the anger but one thing you should never do is to deny it. Scream. Hit a punching bag. Yell and carry on all you like, as long as you don't hurt yourself or someone else. And, I know it's a cliche, but it's true, time does heal. It really does.
2006-09-16 20:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by mannersplease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very heart wrenching tramatic experence to go through .
I lost my Dad this way years ago . I was very angry and had no idea how to deal with all of the emotions that I was experencing.
Whats worse is I had to be strong for my Mom and younger brothers .
I was the only girl and oldest child in a family of six kids . I was the one and only , Daddy's girl .
I had nightmares , night after night and was very angry with God
for taking my Daddy away from me . He was only 44 yrs. old !
I had to make peace with the whole thing and it took me a very long painful time . I suggest you keep talking about your loss and start to remember all the good times you had with your friend .
Try to be greatful for the time you had with her , and just for having her in your life !That is what helped me cope . I had the best Dad ever , and I thank my lucky stars that he loved me so much .
Good luck sweetie ! I will pray for you to heal your broken heart .
2006-09-16 18:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 5 stages to the grief process and anger is one of them. Go through the anger and you will get to the final stage, which is acceptance. And I am sorry for your loss. Truly. BTW it took me a couple of decades to get over the anger of my father dying. I wish you the best. Peace.
2006-09-16 18:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a way to get your anger out. A class in acting, exercising or even singing can help.
2006-09-16 18:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by double v 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't . . . and I couldn't even imagine how it feels like. But for any significant losses I have experienced in my life, I have learned to accept these truths: That it is okay to get angry and cry, that it is okay to even question God why, that it is important to give myself time to grieve and that I have to believe there is a reason for everything that happens (even if I cannot see this reason at that time).
2006-09-16 18:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by OnThe36th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh
i'm so sorry for you
i think you should see a therapist
that's terrible that happened to you
2006-09-16 18:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋