My friend's bf told her he didnt need porn now that he has her but she found out he's a subscriber to Playboy and is totally upset. What can I tell her to calm her down?
2006-09-16 17:58:39 · 12 answers · asked by muffin198486502 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He's a 24 year old college guy.
2006-09-16 18:02:21 · update #1
Give him a break.
How incredibly controlling.
Playboy is hardly pornography, child. It's a men's magazine no different than Cosmo.
Tell your friend to, "Grow up, look around you, make a mature decision and see things for what they are." This overly dramatic crap is petty and annoying.
2006-09-16 18:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to ask her self how much it really bothers her and if its worth leaving him over if it bothers her that much then she should just end things, playboys not that big of an issue, to some people this may be the first of many things she wont like.
2006-09-16 18:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by "love" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, Playboy ISN'T porn. Second, who cares? If she has a problem with this, I feel sorry for him and he needs to be on the move.
2006-09-16 18:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her not to worry about it ~ Playboy isn't exactly what is considered porn... it's just a collection of photos of beautiful women in seductive poses. If it were me in that situation though, I'd get some sexy poses made of myself, and make him a photo album, with a sweet little note of how that now he didn't he need those mags. anymore and could we donate them to the nearest sperm bank.
2006-09-17 02:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by someone s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
between the biggest negative aspects of subscribing to them is that each and every guy that works contained in the submit place of work can fairly scouse borrow you magazines each and each month. I had a subscription for a million three hundred and sixty 5 days and easily 1/2 of them ever confirmed up
2016-11-27 19:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playboy isn't the worst thing out there. Tell her to use it to spice up their love life. She could put on something sexy and wait for him to come home...let him walk in on her reading it and playing with herself. He'll probably find it hot and won't be able to keep his hands of off her.
2006-09-16 18:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say the lie about not having it anymore probably hurt her more than him having it. That's how it would be for me at least. I asked my husband to stop the subscriptions when we started dating and he did. Then I caught him online once - men are just dumb for that kind of stuff. After I told him how much I disliked it (that's a nice way to say it) he has never looked at that stuff again. Communication is key! She needs to really have a heart to heart with him if it bothers her that much.
2006-09-16 18:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by LIl One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend IS a subscriber. Its not like he's actively seeking girls who look like these girls in the magazine, and I don't know, it doesn't bother me a bit. He's with me. But then again he's never told me he doesn't need porn. He's actually tried to get me to sit down and watch with him. Not that that's a problem for me either...ideas....
2006-09-16 18:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by DaznShaya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
playboy is considered acceptable in this day and age. the porn that is awful is the other real nasty magazines. tell her not to sweat the small stuff and roll with it.....
2006-09-16 20:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by walterknowsall 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her that just because her bf is on a diet doesnt mean he cant look at the menu
2006-09-16 18:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by joefox217 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋