hes priorty but when hes single he has all the time in the world.when he breaks up with the female u cant stop him from calling but as soon as hes back with her he calls once every 2 weeks.other issues have happend but i know that if i tell my daughter that she coulndt see him it will break her heart
2006-09-16 17:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by lilsis2576 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She doesn't sound jealous... Trust me i have one of these ex husbands that when he remarried for almost 4 years he didn't have much to do with our 2 kids ( and I'm remarried so not jealous) Until his drug habit he developed finally caught up with him and he got busted now he expects my kids to go to a prison to see him and i will not allow it when he gets out if he stays sober and they want to see him then OK. I do not know how old your daughter is but you would be surprised at what an early age they catch on to things like what he is doing and she will resent him in the long run. So let her go when he ask for she will see how he is and won't want to go before to long
2006-09-16 18:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is it exactly that you are saying? When the Dad doesn't have a relationship then he has more time for his child? You cannot tell your daughter that she cannot see him....I don't know how old your daughter is, but possibly she treasures whatever time she has with him. I know we are unhappy with our ex's, because we do not feel that they are doing everything the way they should. If your daughter is old enough to sit down and talk with her Dad and tell him how she wants him in her life more and not just when he breaks up with someone then he will realize the effect this has on her. I don't know what other issues you are talking about, but what is the point in breaking her heart even more? If she is young, then possibly you could talk with him and tell him how this hurts her.......no matter what it hurts children when either the Mom or Dad are not there on a daily basis....that is just the plain hard fact. I am from this situation and believe me it would be far more easier to have a relationship with both parents, if they weren't continually upset with one another. Children have the capability of unconditional love and it is a pure blessing that adults often do not understand. The conflict in a childs life is usually caused by the conflict between the ex's......one always wants to be right and making the other look bad. Bottom line is it is already a heartbreak enough that the other parent isn't there to start with, so why hurt the child even more???
2006-09-16 18:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't deny him visitation based on the fact that he calls more often when he's not in a relationship. You should sit down and tell him the effect that this is having on your daughter in a calm and rational way. After all, it's all about what's best for the child. She needs to see her dad.
2006-09-16 18:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eventhough he is a part time father don't keep him from seeing his daughter. At least he is in her life, my kids don't see there father.
2006-09-16 18:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allow? i dont wanna sound mean but you are the child's mother its not up to you to allow if the father is willing to see the child and the child is willing its not right for you to stop that
2006-09-17 08:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her see him it's not going to hurt anything but she's going to have to relize that her dad has moved on. he still loves her but he's trying to make things right in his life before he spends a lot of time with her
2006-09-16 17:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by badgirl 419 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's a jackass of a father, he needs to see his kid. Period.
2006-09-16 17:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Tiberius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound jealous,let the man see his kid.
2006-09-16 17:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋