ive been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years.
I am getting confusing signals.
We have had a bit of a rough patch recently and shes saying that 'she shouldnt love me cos ive been mean to her'.
she doesnt like me talking about our relationship with her or my friends yet she does it herself.
She sometimes seems jealous when I talk about other women.
We were meant to only spend part of the day together the other day (at her request) cos of getting the relationship back on track but we spent the whole day together instead and enjoyed it.
Last night though we were out and she looked bored (head in hands) and constantly looking in one direction.
She says shes 'addicted' to me (during foreplay).
When I asked her 'are you free Tuesday' she said maybe.
She went out and said that some men were paying her compliments which was a 'confidence boost'.
We had a chat the other night and looked like we were gonna split up, kept asking if she wanted to leave and she kept saying 'no'.
Help
2006-09-16 17:49:33 · 4 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK first don't talk about other women with your girlfriend and second if she wants to break up there are plenty of other fish in the sea metaphorically speaking and dont just ask her if she wants to leave just ask her whats wrong and if u can do anyhting if its u or if its her because u dont want to love her if she doesnt love you "Do you really want to give your life to
Thinking you found true love when it
hasn't found you"
2006-09-16 17:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you need to tell her just what you wrote here, about how she's been acting and about how that makes you feel. Find out from her what does she want? Don't give her suggestions like "do you wanna break up?" Let her give you her own answer. Secondly, you need to decide if this is what you want to put up with in a relationship. If you do, then work on it with her, if not, time to move on.
2006-09-17 01:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess both of you are too young and unsure of each other. So, you don't have to be committed to each other, yet.
Feel free to make as many friends as you can without any long term commitments and enjoy your youth.
When you are ready, there will be no confusion for you whom to pick as your partner!
2006-09-17 01:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her whats wrong....why is she acting different? there should be some reason......... if you are mean to her....be nice....baby her... girls love that<3
good luck
2006-09-17 01:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by S.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋