if you spend a couple seconds answering this maybe i wont be so lost?

Question

my mom was never a commitment kind of person its always hoppin round from one guy to the next and shes got to settle down with a guy like this im 15 and my 16 year old step brother doesnt have the strongest realationshp wit his dad i just moved in a month ago and when his dad was punching him and stuff i figured it was a parent technique hes hit me a couple times but i stay away kinda its not like i no what a fathers spose to be doing mom wont stay stil long enought for me to no to be punching him and blooding up his face im startin to ask questons now because today i was doing my homework in my room and im on the fone with one of my girls and she hears the yelling in the background she was askin me if there was a wrestling match going on in my house i told her coreys dad was just pushing im around a little she started asking details and i told her everythin which was kinda weird and she told me, terry you know thats not good right? than she told me to get the **** out run ot stay

Answer 1

you need help and you mom is not it...Is there a family member you can count on? find a friend someone who will help you and get out of there. you have the rest of your life ahead of you, don't let them mess it up for you.If you need help e-mail me and i will do all i can

Answer 2

Oh honey hetting children is called Abuse and that is not right. Call someone and let them know what is going on. Things can get out of hand and bad things can happen in a hurry. Is there anyone that you can call to help you with this. Another adult, grandmother or grandfather. How about you real dad? If you do not have anyone it would be better if you called the authorties and told them so you can go some where safe away from all of this. This is not normal. This is not right. Call someone.

Answer 3

It does sound like a serious domestic situation. NO ONE has a right to hit you or anyone else. They can be put in jail for that. You can call child protection services, but there is a chance they will take you away from your family, so be prepared if you choose that route. Just keep in mind that there is NO reason that anyone should lay a hand on you or your brother. Look in the yellow pages for counselors for family, someone you can talk to on the side that hopefully doesnt charge.

Answer 4

I am not sure exactly what it is that you are asking......BUT by the sounds of it there is physical abuse going on??? Honey, this is not how mature, healthy minded adults raise children. Probably that is how they were raised and so it continues on and on. You must know that your Mom has self-esteem issues along with who knows what to keep her and her children on such a roller coaster ride and never knowing who is there next. Please tell me how old you are, as there has to be some way to create a better way of life for you otherwise you could possibly repeat these same destructive patterns for yourself. The sad thing is that this has all become a familiarity to you and how you think people live. It is not the normal and it is just plain an ignorant way to live....sorry but people with anger issues tend to become physically abusive and never solve why and what triggers all this anger. Really, anger comes from a fear we have and until we take care of that fear....our anger is always ready to go.

Answer 5

First off....FlaChic....Knock it off. If she had asked for someone to proof read her story, what you done would have been called for. She is a child in need, not matter her age she is still a child and very afraid right now. Have a heart.

Hon, you do need to tell someone at school if nothing else. They can help you. This is not good for either of you children in the house. One of the other posters is right, you will be the next punching bag....please talk to someone. You both are in my prayers.

Answer 6

You should go to an adult that you trust. From what you've described, your mom doesn't sound like the right person to talk to about this. Maybe a teacher or your friends mom. You can also go online and get a phone number for your local DCS.

Whatever you decide to do, it's probably not best for you stay there. GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 7

you really need some guidance now more than ever from someone who has experience in dealing with this type of situation. maybe a teacher, another family member, someone you trust. if there is no one, there are several places you can call, or web sites. for example, Kids in Crisis
(203) 327-KIDS it's free and 24 hrs/day. they can just listen, provide counseling, intervention, and emergency shelter if needed. you shouldn't shoulder this responsibility on your own. don't make any impulsive decisions (unless you or someone else is in danger) without talking to someone first. email me if you need. good luck. chin up. it's all going to be ok.

Answer 8

Start with your mom. Tell her the situation. If she's to wrapped up in her boyfriend/husband, go talk to another adult like your guidance counselor or teacher. Child protective services need to be notified. And go stay with a friend for a while...

Answer 9

Life is too tough sometimes.This is a tough life.You need to finish your school.Be patient,God will give you a better life.One day,you will have a job,you will be and independent good man and God will give you a life different to this.God bless you.Be patient,focus all your energies in your studies.Good luck.When you have a different life,you will remember what a yahoo member told you.Good luck,be patient (this is the key to survive in any situation).

Answer 10

You need some help. Call social services or tell a teacher or counselor at school. See if you can stay at your firends, otherwise you get to be the next punching bag.

Answer 11

persons that get bodily hit many times bypass that directly to toddlers, grandchildren, etc. that's amazingly dysfunctional, via fact all it teaches , is the bigger you will administration those with violence. in case you like the girl you have been on the telephone with and you have someplace to circulate the place human beings may help and inspire the targets you have in life, i think of with a guy hitting Corey, you and Corey are actually not in a solid challenge. no rely who's hitting Corey, that is not solid, even accepting that he gets hit is an indication which you're used to violence. i'm older than Corey and older than his father and that i ought to declare I agree mutually with your lady, she feels like she has your pastimes at heart, and bear in ideas you could love your mom, yet while deep down interior you sense as though her motivation for her selections in life are actually not continually best for you, you should to work out what ideas you have, and after questioning carefully, I honestly agree mutually with your lady, yet make a nicely theory out thank you to resolve issues, do not in hassle-free terms do something to circulate away, yet think of who loves you, (aunt, uncle, sister, minister, grandparents) and do what's terrific for the long term not in hassle-free terms right this moment.I want you and Corey the terrific of success