I love a boy & he loves me too. Actually we are best friends since 2.5 years. He always was interested in me, but he had to get engaged to a girl only because of his family. he asked me many times to be his girl friend; I loved him too but I was hiding it – it looked wrong to me to be his girl friend and I rejected him. He got engaged. For few months he didn’t express anything to me but he was telling me that his engagement is not working. Then I had to leave the city. When he realized that he is loosing me he was asking that until I leave, I spend time with him as a lover. I was fed up hiding my emotions I told him that I loved him too but I can’t be his girl friend even for 1 sec because he is engaged. Now he is coming to my city for 3 days.He says if I spend even 1 minute with him as a lover it will be the happiest moment of his life-rest his of life is nothing.We are really hurt by spaces between us. Should I spend these 3 days with him more than just friend?Or it’s still wrong?
2006-09-16 17:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by Sara W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The best thing to do is...(1) He breaks the engagement, (2) You both announce your love for each other (3) Get engaged (4) Why 3 days...spend as many days together as you want to.
2006-09-17 23:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong. If u really love him don't be his gf bcoz it will be more painfull to come out from such feelings which u will gain, if u will spend time with him. But if u both r in love, why don't u get marry why only for his parents ego satisfactory u r sacrificing ur love, just tell both of ur parents that u love each-other and also tell everything to that girl, if she have feelings for him she will leave him for u . What i m saying if want to spend, spend the whole life with each other otherwise spending some time or 3 days together is wrong its a cheating.
2006-09-17 01:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by kajalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth will set him free. Seriously. It will be extremely difficult, but that's the only way to live life... not living a lie. It sounds like he needs to break it off with the fiancee now, even if he doesn't end up with you.
2006-09-16 17:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by LIl One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it if he loves u then he'll blow off his family and go with u but hes not he loves this girl hes marrying or he wouldnt be marrying her he might just be uesing u for sex but dont let your self be foold because if u do anything with him u might get pregnant and imagine how he'll treet u if u get pregnant and he has a wife u might loose your best friend
2006-09-17 10:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong wrong wrong. He will just use ur body. then will leave u as it is already said only 3 days. if he loves u this much then y doesn't he fight for you. this is not love. it's emotional blacmailing....
now use your head, what else can i say. it's ur life.
2006-09-16 23:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by Saahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does being his lover mean u got to hav s** with him ?then the answr is NO.go talk to his fiance may be she could understand.
2006-09-20 06:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, you never know what its like unless you do it...
Tho some others may disagree with me on that one, i say do it..
2006-09-16 17:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by louie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong! Don't do it.
If he really wanted to be with you forever, he could be. Sure, it would be difficult, but he could do it if he wanted to.
2006-09-16 17:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋